So even though I have a positive view of life and I tell everyone else too I'm quite depressed that I don't have a boyfriend. I go to an all girl school and for my guy friends outside school I set my sister up with one of them and they are in bliss at the mo, but I can't get any of the love myself lol. I've changed for the better though. My fashion sense has way improved and I'm more comfortable with myself but the thing is guys don't seem that attracted to me. I told a guy that I liked on msn (YES I KNOW A BIG MISTAKE) and all he could say was 'I don't know what to say' and it just seems that anytime a really rreally cute guy comes around that I like he seems to look right past me to that other girl standing behind me. What should i do I just feel so down and I don't want to turn into someone I don't want to be just so I fit a guys expectations since this scenerio is really bringing me down since i'm like 16 and have never had a boyfriend, and I do get out when I'm not doin exams :(x
2007-12-08 05:59:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive learned that the more you feel a certain way and you believe what you are telling yourself, the more it shows on the outside. People who lack the confidence on the inside or more prone to show that lack of confidence on the outside. You are a great person inside, let the world know it too!! Your never going to meet people if you dont learn to speak up and initiate a conversation first. Sometimes men are shy too.
There is nothing wrong with you, you just have to be more open and communicate. If your a matchmaker, then you should know what it takes to become matched!! You have a great personality, just pull alil more from it..Also, every guy you meet is not going to be that one guy for you. Dont let it get you down, just be yourself and have fun:)
2007-12-08 06:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Alwayz..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I decided to have a baby and when we finally got pregnant, we found out that his really close friend's girlfriend was further along then I was. I actually felt bad I was because I felt well she got pregnant first, this should be her time. But she actually talked to my boyfriend and sounded happy she knew some one was pregnant. Then just a few days ago I find out another one of my boyfriend's friend's girlfriend is pregnant and due before me. I don't know them as well so I was starting to feel ugh, how dare they! I wanted to get pregnant when no one else was. And now that the girl we found out was pregnant first already feels her baby, I am more jealous. I am fine now. I guess it is good that we will know people with kids our child's age.
2016-04-08 01:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i am in the same position..but the only thing i notice that guys like girls who are crazy and loud..and thats not me i reserved and decent and its really hard for me to find someone that likes me for who i am...but my advice is that you shouldnt change the way you are just go along the flow and in time a guy will appear and make you fell special and you will be happy that you waited for the right guy!
2007-12-08 06:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by Suzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 is plenty young. Don't panic yet. I didn't get a girlfriend until I was almost 21. And now she's been my wife for eleven years, so it works out. Don't change who you are, it's much more important to find someone that loves you, not someone that loves who you're pretending to be.
2007-12-08 06:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i had this same problem a few months ago.
Just dont try as hard to get guys to notice you.
As soon as i stopped trying, guys started asking me out, and i met my boyfreind. :)
So theres nothing wrong with you.
Be patient. The right guy will notice you soon or a later.
2007-12-08 06:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be pationt and be yourself and don't worrie about getting a boyfriend one will come when your not looking and when you least expect it just let people except you for you don't change
2007-12-08 06:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by cold_hearted_bitch91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww, dont worry. one day, one day...
2007-12-08 06:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋