Ummm... Please don't say I'm racist or stupid, because I'm not, but I've noticed that most of the guys who have had crushes on me have been Asian. Or at least thought I was pretty. For example, my mom had to get new glasses from some place at the mall and the main guy who worked there was this old Asian guy, and he always says "You are so beautiful!" and "You are very quiet, Asian men find that attractive!" and "You will make a wonderful wife!" and when I'm not there he asks my mom where "her beautiful daughter is." (IT IS VERY CREEPY.)
And my guy friend is Korean, and he's liked me for several years, so we're basically going out, but yeah...
Is there any quality that a lot of Asian guys look for in girls? Once again, I'm not stupid or racist. And for the record, I think Asian guys are hot. Lol.
2007-12-08 05:36:23 · 14 answers · asked by Adelaide 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm white, lol. With light brown hair.
I'm not short, but I'm not fat at all, lol, and I'm hardly ever around Asian guys. Lol
2007-12-08 05:43:07 · update #1
No, I really don't have a big ego.
Sorry if it seems that way. But I don't. And more than 2 Asian guys have liked me. I don't really have anything specific to say about the others. Mmkay?
2007-12-08 05:49:54 · update #2
Well, there's apparently some type of chemistry because you and the Asian are dating. As an Asian teenager, I'm attracted to non-asian ppl. No I'm not racist against my wn ethnicity, it's just that I grew up around white people and not as many Asian. The people you are around certainly define you will be or have become and what your going to do with your life-they're predominatly your second family.
More importantly, elderly Asians talk about younger people because they are use to complimenting others. It's something that's human nature to them-while other's find it creepy they find it instinct.
2007-12-08 05:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're cute. Asian guys love cute girls. Asian guys are usually attracted to brunette. So you're a cute brunette. I know all the girls I have ever had a crush on has been brunette, beautiful, and smart. I don't like blonde for some reason.
Also, to people who are not familiar with Asian culture, Asian people, esp. old people, like to comment on how someone's daughter is beautiful or smart. It is a compliment. It is not creppy. It is a way of Asian parents give complimenting to other parents. I always get ...oh "he's tall.." I am 6'1 . Asian parent pride themselve on their children. How beautiful they are or how smart they are. I don't agree, but that is the way it is. The old Asian guy comment is quite common. It is not in anyway inappropriate. It is not like he is making a pass at you in front of your mom.
In this pedophillic, fear driven Western culture, people might misconstrued that.
2007-12-08 18:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Leeder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not Asian, i'm English, but that's not too important. The first thing is that yes, for the majority it depends on the person. It is, however, more common for someone of one race to date someone from the same race. You mainly see two white people, two Vietnamese, two Chinese, two Korean, two French, Two African-Americans, and even two Mexicans. I believe this is due to the differences of cultures and that both of the people would believe in the same thing. I'm not too sure, but this is just from what I've seen. Honestly, though, it just depends on the person because I have seen mixed-race relationships many times :)!! Good luck!!!
2016-05-22 04:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by julieta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah what the above guy had said, most old Asian people like to comment on the younger ones. Others may find it creepy...
2007-12-08 05:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by Romeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You type "lol" too much c'mon it's you're not that funny.
I bet that "creepy old asian dude" is finding the next litttle girl attractive to.
You only stated two asians that liked you, big deal. That one comment from the older guy is deffiently getting to your head though. Chill on the ego
2007-12-08 05:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kellyn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't find this to be a racist question at all.
Perhaps your body language amongst Asian Men makes them think or aware that you're interested since you can not hide your attraction for them as well as theirs for you?
2007-12-08 05:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by Cricket 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ha, that's funny, (not to be racist) but what race are you? I'm asian but i'm really open to any type of chick. maybe it's cuz you hang out with asians and you act asian.
2007-12-08 05:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason that guys from all ethnicities are attracted. You will find men (and women) who are much the same in every groups.
2007-12-08 05:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im asian, and i think its because your only around asian dudes, that old dude at the store is hella creepy, keep away
2007-12-08 05:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by mr fugi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who knows maybe you're just pretty with a sweet personality.
2007-12-08 05:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋