ok first off dont judge me im not a jerk whos trying to pressure his gf into haveing sex with him or nethign like that wat hapens is im a 15 yo guy going out wit a 14 yo girl we both love eachother very much n i can see her with me a few years down the road still. neways we were talking about sex and how we were gonna do it when we were ready then the other day she told me she was ready (it was one week ago). and she told me that she really really wanted to do it with me. well we were all set to do it tomoro, cept yesterday her mom took her phone and read her text messages. she saw wat we were planning n her dad n her had a talk with her. well to make things worse, she started her period one day b4 her mom found out so her emotions were also all out of wack. now, she says taht shes gonna wait till shes married so she can have sex. :-( is this just cuz shes on her period so she has a low sex drive? i couldve lived w/o sex but now i was so close i got really excited n now i really wantto
2007-12-08 03:57:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok well shes the one who first brought up the idea of sex n shes the one who said she really really really wants to so idk?? could a talk with her parents really change her mind that much?? is it just her period????
2007-12-08 04:09:31 · update #1
amanda i do love my gf its just like sam said. when she first told me she wanted to have sex i told her i didnt kno if i would b ready but now that it was just a couple days away n now wer not gonna my hopes were just really high n then fell but i really do love her n i hope she doesnt stay chaste cuz she told me the night b4 that she really wanted to do it n that she was really happy that i would b her first cuz we both love eachother
2007-12-08 04:25:42 · update #2
to dippy:
that is not rape if it is consensual i have taken sex ed i kno about std, sti, pregnancy, etc... we r both virgins n we both have no std/stis we were gonna use a condom she even told me that her only rule was that no condom no sex so she told me to go buy some n the only reason that im not speilling everything perfect is that i dont feel the need to correct myself everytime i make a typo
2007-12-08 04:28:07 · update #3
If a 14 year old girl is dancing around in front of you naked and begging you for it, and you do it, it is still RAPE! You may not think so now, but you're lucky that her parents found out in time to stop it. Stay in school, learn how to spell, take a sex ed class. LEARN about STD's, STI's, pregnancy, etc, before you have to LIVE them.
Added: What state do you live in where the age of "consent" is 14 for a female? It's NOT "consensual" unless both parties are "of age"--willing participants or not. That's the LAW! Look up the term "statutory rape".
Condoms break, accidents happen. If you aren't willing to fix little things like typo's, I'd hate to see how you handle the bigger mistakes.
2007-12-08 04:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Dippy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, that is just wrong. Did you say yes? After 8 years and you go and cheat her with her SISTER!?! You know the feeling of being cheated on, so why would you make the girl you love feel that same pain? Tell her, because her, she doesn't deserve NOT to know. She may forgive you, but if I were her, I would slap you and walk away. Because no GIRL or GUY deserves to be treated like that. Don't expect everything to be okay, because most likely, that is the end of your relationship.
2016-05-22 04:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by cherly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you got your hopes up and now its disheartening. She might not come out of this phase and want to stay chaste. You might just have to accept that and if you can't, your relationship will fall apart. If you want sex and she doesn't, its hard to find a common ground...its usually either sex or no sex...so it all depends on how much you care about this girl...and how long your willing to wait if she doesn't want to have sex
2007-12-08 04:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by longislndgrl114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 and to be honest i NEVER thought about having sex at my age, lots can go wrong and stuff. and i am thinking about no sex until marriage, but who knows. a girl period can definitely make her mad at you for something u didnt do, but i dont think her period would make her distions for her. lol so i say wait and have fun dont have sex until u 2 decide together, and at our age our sex drive is crazy and we think about it too, but making out isnt bad and having fun together. just dont go that way with her, you cant blame a 14 year old for not wanting too.
2007-12-08 04:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on what you said, you DON'T love her. If you did, you'd be fine with the fact that she wanted to wait until marriage. It seems your relationship with her is purely physical. If anything I think she was just trying to please you by saying she would have sex with you so early. Now that her parents have reminded her about the consequences, she probably realizes that waiting until she is married is the best choice for her.
2007-12-08 04:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to respect her choice. If you don't u might be looking at jail time for rape.
2007-12-08 04:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mike L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude.........if only you were old enough to drink!!!
2007-12-08 04:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋