My parents think I'm not trust-worthy. They are Christans. And I am an atheist. They are extremely relligious, fanatist, and paranoid. I am a B average student, I keep up with school...
Since I've had my girlfriend they've been a hastle. They don't let me outta the house! I don't think I've ever done anything to make them, NOT trust me. My chances of being socially active are basically limited to school! I know they only want what's best for me, and they ARE caring parents, but I think this is just unfair. I am 14 going 15.
2007-12-08 03:40:34 · 8 answers · asked by Ale! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can I improve the TRUST between me and my parents??
2007-12-08 03:41:07 · update #1
start behaving responsibly clean your room with out being asked, take out trash etc.. sounds strange but by being responsible around the house, they should start to trust you as a mature, grown person
2007-12-08 03:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh.. You cannot help that you don't believe in God.. I am a Christian but no one can be forced into religion.. You are still 15 though so you have to abide by the rules of your parents.. Just think only 3 years you are free.. and 3 years really is not long at al!
Just do things for them or go out of your way to help them out.. Like something unexpected that they need done such as mowing the lawn, taking the trash... Etc...
2007-12-08 03:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean random stuff around the house. When the see something clean they'll feel like your responsible, and the next time you get into a arguement about going out you can use it against them.
2007-12-08 03:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Avery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to them explain although they are religious
and you are an atheist that does mean you are not trust worthy.
have the talk with both of them in a kind and loving manner.
explain to them you are trustworthy and deserve to be truested. use a calm approach, everybody keep cool heads.
good luck.
2007-12-08 03:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to church with them(thats probably the reason) ask them why and what have you done to not ern there trust tell them you are a good kid but you will have to leave the nest eventualy(parents love those kind of metaphores) and if you hold me bak when you do let go it will be a lot worse
2007-12-08 03:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. mcwise guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is sit down and try to talk to them. That's about the only thing. If they don't trust you now they probably will never
2007-12-08 03:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wite a letter to them about ur feeling about the subject..
if you cant talk to them in person about it.
i have the smae problem, an i turned 14 2 months ago
write a letter,
this is what myfriend said she did wene she was 14 (16 now)
and it said it worked 4 her.
im goingg to try it too.
hoped i helped!
Good luck!
2007-12-08 03:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to them and tell them they need to let u out. idk. maybe write them a letter. maybe prove u can handle stuff. because maybe they think ur too immature.
2007-12-08 03:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by Pooh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋