My g/f of three weeks texted me after I tried contacting her since wednesday. We didn't fight or argue but now she says that she wants to be left alone because she is not feeling good. The last time I heard from her was before she was going to the doctor's for something health related. She is on the pill so I don't think she is pregnant. Is she just playing games and wants to be left alone for good or is she really sick? She won't tell me. She did say when she feels better that she will call but I'm not sure. Should I just forget about her and move on? Am not sure what to think.
2007-12-08 03:38:56 · 10 answers · asked by cappatown23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should just leave her alone until she is feeling better. she is really sick. girls dont say their sick just to be left alone cz they dont like u unless they really sleezy. i think u should try to call her and tell her u hope she feels better and then see wat she does from there. and just because she is on the pill that doesnt mean anything. people still get pregnant if they use condoms and r on the pill
good luck!
2007-12-08 03:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by sum1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only been three weeks and she wants to be left alone. Leave her alone. She could be dealing with something really serious, you never know. She could also just be saying that. If she's just saying that, why would you want to be with someone like that? If she really is going through something and she wants to be left alone. Do what she asks. Tell her you're there if she needs you and just move on.
2007-12-08 03:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by BoredinVA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's probably not lying and really don't feel good. Give her a day or two then try to call. Send her a get well card or something in the mean time.
2007-12-08 03:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by mandybb65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between computers and cell phones,no one seems to remember how to actually physically pick up a phone any more.Call her,ask her how she's feeling but don't get nosy about her sickness.If she wants to tell you she will.Tell her that you're there for her and to not hesitate to call if she needs something.Ask her if it's ok to go visit her and don't get mad if she says no.Wish her well and end the call.She'll call you before you know it.
2007-12-08 03:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by Janell T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women are nuts when they are sick just stop bothering her for now and then if she doesnt call you then you will know this is a good time to befriend her parents just communicate with her folks call and act concerned call for updates then she knows you care about her condition and will appreciate that
2007-12-08 03:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
text her and say
"I understand that you want to be left alone right now and i respect that. but just know that when you are ready to talk, i am here and ready to listen
i love you"
2007-12-08 03:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What`s wrong with waiting til she feels better?
2007-12-08 03:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by jms043 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she might be playing games...
2007-12-08 03:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by Fred Said...クリスティー 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She could be prego.. Just because she is on birth control does not mean it is working!!
2007-12-08 03:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
she wants more of your attention, I guess.
Girls are attention bugs...
2007-12-08 03:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋