see im 13 and i have dreams about me and my sister sexually but now its been happining more bcause i gt a wet dream BUT I NEVER THINK ABOUT HER THAT WAY OR AT ALL WHEN IM TRYING TO GO TO SLEEP i need help though because i dont feel like having sexuall intercourse with my sister do i need to like get more sexuall active i know that i dont want to have sex but i mean should i kiss another girl because i didnt have a gf in a year and maybe i should get one so would that help? just plz help me
2007-12-08 03:29:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
i dont want to have sex with a girl but i get what all of u are saying getting a gf wont fix this
2007-12-08 03:41:02 · update #1
You need to talk to your parents and a counselor, like at school. You need more professional help than worrying about all the stuff at the end as much about getting a gf to fix the problem. You are really brave and courageous for realizing you need help.
2007-12-08 03:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by Trojan8408 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Calm down. We have dreams about things and people that really are not about them sometimes. Of course you don't want to have sex with your sister, but maybe something else is going on with another female you like, but you see your sisters face in the dream.
And no, you don't use girls to solve your problems; "maybe I should get one so would that help?" You never have relationships for reasons like that.
Soon, they will go away. But you may want to ask yourself what is going on around the time all this started, what has changed?
2007-12-08 03:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
LOL I have had sex with the pope with bill clinton, eminem just name few. Plus creepy family members. But I just remind myself it was a dream and move on. The more you think about the more often it will happen. Or give in, enjoy the experience for when your big day happens. Dreams are weird and rarely controllable. Good luck@@
2007-12-08 03:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by leet_colleen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is just a dream! everyone has crazy dreams ,they do not matter just don't dwell upon them! you do not have to act out your dreams you know that would be wrong.it is just the devil trying to trick you into doing bad things.just do not and at 13 you really should wait until you are older before you concern yourself with sex at all! GOD made sex to be a blessing in marriage and though i know it is almost never heard of that is still the best choice ,to wait till marriage.if people did this we would not have unwed mothers or aids or HIV or many other diseases and porn would not be so popular if people thought on purer things and did the things that need to be done.we all are tempted to do wrong things we can choose not too.good luck to you!
2007-12-08 03:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by dixie58 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it! Dreams of sex with siblings can mean diffferent things. One relates to the person you're dating now. You aren't dating anyone, so that's not it. It can also be a warning about being bullied into something you don't want to do in your life. Do you have anything going on that you really don't want to do, but are being forced to do it? I know it's hard, but try and look at your life and what's going on in it. Go to dream interpretation websites also. They can guide you on figuring out your dreams.
2007-12-08 03:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by BoredinVA 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you're 13, which means you are starting to develop sexual feelings. it might just be that you have sexual dreams about your sister because she's someone you see everyday. pretty soon you'll probably start fantasizing about your mom too etcetera.
there is nothing wrong with you. you are perfectly healthy. it will pass. gettinga girlfriend will indeed not help you, although it wouldn't hurt either.
2007-12-09 06:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. I used to have dreams like this. It's just the hormones going crazy in your body. Yes, find yourself a girlfriend, but NO SEX until you're 30! OK, 25. You might find yourself a daddy way before your time.
2007-12-08 03:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by smiday1097 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think what you dream can't be helped. It's what you do in the day that matters, and you are not doing anything wrong except dreaming. Relax. You are young and have many years to have sex and a girlfriend in front of you. You've done nothing wrong, dreams are not reality.
2007-12-08 03:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by Ricky 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
People tend to dream about things they are around all the time. It's probably just because she's the girl you are around more often. Dreams are weird. Dont take em too seriously =)
2007-12-08 03:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
this happened to me when i was about that age but with teachers at skwl and when i got there and saw that teacher id feel so ashamed and embarresed
but just sweat it out and as you get older they'll vanish and be replaced by people who you find attractive..either people you know or celebrity icons.
im nearly 16 now btw and i felt exactly the same way
good luck!
2007-12-08 03:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋