i need help from a guys point of view?

Question

im of average size, i work hard, make decent grades, im nice to people, but i cant get a guy to look my way. is there something wrong with me, if so then what??? i get told everyday how beautiful i am, and how great of a person i am. then i go to school & as soon as i walk into those doors, im alone for eight hours. all i want is somebody to hold me & tell me everything will be okay, when im having a bad day-which is almost everyday. or somebody to just be there for me. help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i do talk to guys a lot. and for the person who says im a negative person---you are wrong. you dont see what i go thru every day, i work so so so so so hard with everything i do, im struggling to keep my grades up & im getting no where, ya i have a lot of bad days, i even sat down in the middle of the stair well at lunch the other day and broke down crying, thats right i cried. im at upset and stressed-so dont tell me that im a negative person. thanks to everybody else who answered.

i do talk to guys a lot. and for the person who says im a negative person---you are wrong. you dont see what i go thru every day, i work so so so so so hard with everything i do, im struggling to keep my grades up & im getting no where, ya i have a lot of bad days, i even sat down in the middle of the stair well at lunch the other day and broke down crying, thats right i cried. im so alone , upset and stressed and dont know how to handle it-so dont tell me that im a negative person. also, im not going to my mother because it is a very rare occasion that i even talk to her, she is two states away from where i live. thanks to everybody else who answered.

Answer 1

I think the answer to your problem is in your question. You said "when im having a bad day-which is almost everyday..." That's a turn off, baby. You sound like a negative person. This will need to be addressed. I can't tell you how without knowing you better. Feel free to email some specifics to this Pimp and I will do my best. Now I'm assuming you shower regularly and aren't eating burritos everyday, if you know what I mean.

Answer 2

you'll be fine. you sound like a nice person and just haven't found anyone yet! You are still in high school and a lot of guys are attracted to the stupid drunk girls a lot of time (they don't respect them). Try looking to meet people in places that you enjoy or where you will find down to earth people.

Answer 3

All I can tell you is that you might want to change what you are doing. Instead of waiting around for a guy to talk to u or ask you out. You need to put yourself out there. Join different clubs at school. Talk to guys, even it means to asked them out yourself. Some guys rather have grls asked them out then them doing it. Just engage yourself in chats with guys and just flirt with them.

Answer 4

Honey, you had better talk to your mom about what`s going on. Remember she was your age once and lived through it all.If you get depressed enough, you can either wind up in the arms of some kid who only wants sex, or worse, you could hurt yourself. Please talk.

Answer 5

Just be yourself, maybe try talking to a guy your interested in and get to know people. become more social. they may be intimidated by you. so just go talk to them. love will find a way.

Answer 6

first see 4 a person who has similar interests...then, spend time with him,,,tell him u'r interested.....and u dont have gud frnds(this is the best way to melt a guy)..he'll like u

Answer 7

Heck you just wait for love to come to you.I'm pretty sure someone is going to like you for who you are or someone already does and you just don't know about it yet.