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Ive done what they said, but what am i actually feeling for, what does it feel like?

2007-12-08 01:30:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I agree with master !!!!you will know!!!

2007-12-08 01:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by serah s 2 · 0 0

Go ahead and experiment hun!

There is nothing wrong with getting to know your own body. We are all very different. Some of us find it to be a very healthy release, while other see it differently. So we have to respect those who are sexual in a healthy manner, the same way we have to respect those who are not.

Here's a quick guide ok..:)

Here's How:
Avoid performance pressure about the "magic spot".
People can become fixated on achieving a sexual goal (multiple orgasms, simultaneous orgasm, g-spot orgasms) One thing I can promise is that this is the best way to NOT enjoy any sort of sexual encounter. Remember that sexual exploration is mostly about the journey, not the destination (although the destination is better than most, I’ll agree). Try not to make this another notch in your “sexually self-actualized” belt.

Turn yourself on.
Any homework that starts with this is bound to be somewhat fruitful. The spongy area around the g-spot gets engorged with blood when you’re sexually aroused, so it is much easier to find and feel when you’re turned on.

Get comfortable and find the g-spot area.
Lie on your back, squat, or lie on your stomach. Place your palm face down on your vulva and slowly insert a finger inside your vagina (use lube if you’re feeling a little dry), crooking it forward in a “come hither” motion. When you’re up to about the second knuckle you should feel a slightly bumpy or ridged area on the upper wall of your vagina.

Notice how the g-spot feels.
The texture of the g-spot area will likely be noticeably different from the typically smooth walls of the vagina. When you’re aroused it can expand, so feel it at different times during your arousal to get familiar with its contours and sensitivity. The g-spot responds to pressure, so press down and pull forward using that "come hither" motion with your fingers.

Explore the g-spot with toys.
For some it can be awkward to stimulate the g-spot by hand. A g-spot vibrator or dildo can be a great helper in this. Apply a little lube to your toy, and insert it with the tip (if it’s curved) pointing up toward the top wall of your vagina. Work it in slowly, far enough (a couple of inches) so the tip is pressing against your g-spot.

Experiment with pressure and motion.
Some women will find pressure against the g-spot pleasurable, some women like the feeling vibration when a toy is pressing against the g-spot. Experiment and see if either feels good for you. For most women, the g-spot responds to firm pressure. In the beginning, use your toy as if you were trying to scratch an itch—don’t pull the toy all the way out, but use short strokes, applying firm pressure, against the g-spot.

Vary the movements.
A circular or back-and-forth motion may be necessary to get you started, but you might soon graduate to a more vigorous thrusting. If you’ve got a vibrator, try playing with the vibrations both on and off to see which you like better.

Add clitoral stimulation to g-spot play.
You’ll know you’re hitting the spot as you feel tingly sensations, the urge to pee, and an overall elevation in your arousal. When you feel the urge to come, stimulate your clitoris using your favorite method. Keep stroking your g-spot.

Let go.
With continued stimulation, you’ll eventually feel a sensation much like having to pee. This can be quite disconcerting at first, and has probably led plenty of women to abandon the process, but if you stick with it you’ll be in for a pleasant surprise. You may or may not ejaculate, but ejaculation is perfectly normal (and it's not urine).

If you don’t at first orgasm, try try again. It can take several practice sessions before you notice any build up. Try varying your position, using a different toy, experimenting with breathing and kegel exercises (to strengthen your PC muscle), or having a partner help you. Because the g-spot is most responsive when aroused, you may also want to try stimulating it after you’ve had an orgasm.

Remember the ear lobe.
Experimenting with the g-spot can be fun, and you never know what you’ll learn in the process. But try not to get hung up on this being a mind-blowing experience. If you’re playing around and it’s not doing anything for you, try something else, and know that there is nothing wrong with you, and what turns us all on is incredibly individual and unique.

--Lucy

2007-12-08 09:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer, USN Wife & Mother. 2 · 10 1

I think it's the spot where you get most of the pleasure from. I haven't found it yet but that's definetly how it should feel.

2007-12-08 09:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by anaconda_orchid 3 · 0 0

theres still questions as to whether it actually exists cos when you orgasm there is a part or 'spot' that heightens all feeling, but this can only be achieved through normal sexual activity (or whatever you re into!) but its not a place which can be touched and aroused alone. if that makes sense?
x

2007-12-08 12:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by valentina o 2 · 0 1

it's, ummm
hey you are far too young for this
wait til you are 13 in 4 years time

2007-12-08 09:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

id tell you but its so much fun feeling around for it and when you find it beieve me you will know (clue) its not low down so feel higher

2007-12-08 09:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by fozz 4 · 0 0

I don't know the answer, but Betty Baby, I'm with you all the way on this one.

2007-12-08 09:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by Dodgy-knees 2 · 0 0

http://youtube.com/watch?v=hwJElbadlK0

(u must have an account on YouTube to watch the video and believe me its not porn, just a 3D graphics demonstration)

2007-12-08 09:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Try this website -
http://www.autumn-rose.co.uk/locating-the-female-g-spot.html

2007-12-08 09:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 0 0

don't be too curious about that darling. you are still young i suppose. don't experiment on those nonsense things

2007-12-08 09:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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