My gf and I have been with each other for a half a year. We are both in our mid-20s. She is always the first one to get an orgasm and after she has an orgasm she is done. When I say done she wants me to stop and I am like okay. Why does she want me to stop when she is done?
2007-12-07 22:35:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that selfish brat....u need to talk it over with her....n if she dsnt understand even afta that...dnt bang her for a while...c wat she says
2007-12-07 23:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by Swit Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After women have an orgasm they can be pretty sensitive down there and not want to have sex anymore. I think the best idea is to work on either you having an orgasm first or you both having one at about the same time. So don't concentrate too much on whatever you're doing to make her orgasm until you know you're going to soon. Or, if she thinks she's close, take a break or change positions so she can last longer. Alternatively, she can take a break after she's had an orgasm and she should be fine to carry on after a few minutes.
2007-12-08 06:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by xangel123x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some women it's really uncomfortable to keep going after they have an orgasm. She should still help you finish, it's the polite thing to do.
2007-12-08 06:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by misty_dawn1100 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you get her to climb on top after shes done,thats what i do but it relieves the feeling of sensitivity and i can carry on
however i would like a guy that could outlast me most of the time as its usually the other way around
2007-12-08 06:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by little miss lovely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause she only cares about satisfying herself. IT IS ALL ABOUT HER! Next time you have sex....
you have an orgasm after 10 seconds and give her a taste of her own medicine. Leave her hanging. When she wants more, you won't be able to give it to her, cause you'll be soft. :))))) Please do this and give us a follow up, ok.
2007-12-08 06:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop what? It can be too intense and even painful for her if you continue to stimulate her clitoris after her orgasm - but penetration shouldn't be a problem at all.
2007-12-08 06:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by geminiwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's a selfish lover. Explain to her that one of the best things about being a girl is multiple O's, and it's not fair of her to finish all the time without allowing you to enjoy yourself too.
2007-12-08 06:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y don't u ask her?
I get done sometimes b4 and I don't ask him to stop :S
maybe it hurst her? just inconsiderate? selfish? cold?
u ask her but moslty explain to her that it hurts or it bothers or whatever plus the consequences.. it's not normal that she ALWAYS gets the orgasm first, then u do what? m**********?
it's not healthy for the relationship and for u..
but the y question...
2007-12-08 06:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good lord its sensitive to a woman she never told you that?
Give her a few mintues to regain herself.
And if shes not helping you out "At all"
what he said above me its inconsiderate.
2007-12-08 06:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
selfish
tell her you want to do her anally until you are done
she may get another orgasm or 12
look it up.. it's more intense for her
2007-12-08 06:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just the way she is. If you do not like it, tell her.
The Rat
2007-12-08 06:38:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋