Am i Strange??

Question

I ask this question as i'm a 24yr old thats not ad a boyfriend yet and not had sex...just wondered if i would be classed as strange??

Answer 1

Hi,
I would consider you special and extremely precious!
It is definitely for some reason that you never had a boy friend or engaged in sex until your age of 24 while the so called mainstream jumps into all this from the age of 12 or so.
You must have seen the kind of questions people ask here in these pages! This wait would have also given you time to see the failures in relationships your friends or other young things have faced so far. So I think it was time spent well.
You have waited for some reason and that must have been very important for you. I respect you for that. And the person who will be your companion and partner also will be someone special, because you are choosing him after a long wait. You two are going to enjoy being together so much, I am sure.
Dont worry about what others might think of you. You know yourself. You are so precious! :-)
All the best..

Answer 2

No, you're not strange. You sound like a very nice person with morals. Hey! I'm 37 and have never had a girlfriend nor had sex. It's very hard to meet nice decent people. Never rush into anything that you're not sure of and never be afraid to stand for what you believe no matter what anyone says. People in general are very selfish and quite often immature and stupid....so please don't be afraid to stick to your guns. The right person will come along one day in which you will love, honor and respect. Look at the world around you right now and see how much pain and suffering (for adults and children) that is created because immature/selfish people would rather jeopardize themselves, their bodies (STDs), their futures (and the possiblity of bringing an unwanted child into the world into an uncommitted relationship (by not showing responsibility and not getting marriage) )...all for 15 or so minutes of senseless "boinking". It's just not right. True love is born out of mutual respect, honor, kindness, patience and decency.

It's like trying to climb a stairway with one giant leap to get to the top.....realisticly it just isn't going to happen and you're simply going to get hurt. In life you must take each step one at a time, you will surely get to the top (your goal) when being sure-footed and patient.

It's like growing a flower....you simply don't plant a seed and **POOF** ...a flower!! No.....you must have the right ingredients to make it work......daily water, a good soil, sunlight, vitamins, spraying for insects....and if all goes well you will have a beauitful flower which you worked hard for. It will be that more enjoyable to you and those around you.

Be strong, be wise and be patient. Please never let anyone make you feel otherwise!

Personally when some people (mainly co-workers) found out that I was still single and never had a girlfriend (nor "boinkage" either), they were in disbelief (they said because of my looks), but when they got to know me, they began to understand and begin to really like and respect me on the inside. And that's the most important part.

It also helps that I have an analytical mind which I can quickly use to politely tongue-thrash anyone who tries to get insulting or demeaning with me. :)

Chin up and stand tall!!! =)

Good day,
J

Answer 3

Yes, you would be. And chances are you have seen it for your self, people will stop talking to you because you are a virgin or you haven't have a boy friend. Its like they don't want to dirty you up or something. Well what you have to do is grab them by the neck collier and say, "Rub that dirty all over me!"

And the question, O'the lovely questions. I tell you what I always say, 1/3 girls in the world are raped or beaten between the ages of 12-18 virginity is dead it was never there to begin with.

I tell you if not for the invenchen of the hymen(made in 1896), there would be no virginity. Who knows maybe you should lie, maybe you should pop that baby your self, that is if you haven't already.

What I'm trying to say is, as soon as people here this about you they want to put you in that little box, and place on high on the top shelf. Its up to you to diside weather its worth it or not.

And all tell you what I do I lie to people.

Answer 4

No. If it hasn't been right for you yet then it shouldn't be any other way.

However, if you are unhappy about the situation, then by all means try to get some counseling to determine why you may be avoiding relationships. You should never feel pressured about the sex. That should come with the right relationship.

Answer 5

you are not strange at all, and 24 years old is still very young , you have your whole lifeahead of you . there are no rules just pressures take no for an answer until you met the one you will known when the time is right for you ,you must travel see some of this anthill remember you are worth it be proud of yourself and your life and be true to yourself. good luck from silver fox.merry xmas to you

Answer 6

I admire your purity. Not all young people can keep themselves pure and holy at such a time like this due to th epeer group preasure.
Dont allow boys to treat you like trash. Did you know most boys just want your body and dont care what will happen to you. you are pressious in God's sight.
Keep your self pure to the end. For I know there is one for you out there who will love you for who you are and not to hav sex with you.
You are not strange but a lovely lady worth the very best in life.
Dont allow boys to reduce you to nothing worth.

Answer 7

no, your definatly not strange! i wouldnt worry about being single, when the right guy comes along you wont worry that it took him awhile to find you, itll just be nice that hes in your life. Im in the same position as you, though im 17, and i think that the Mr Right will be worth the wait, and a little patience will reap a wonderful reward. hope you find love soon :)

Answer 8

You know, I think there are more people out there like you than you think.

You may think its weird because OTHER PEOPLE think its weird...but I bet YOU PERSONALLY dont think its weird. You obviously have your reasons for not having a bf or not having experienced sex yet. And that's life. You can't help it.

There are millions of other people in your boat. And trust me, alot of them will be older than 24.

Dont think your strange. Your time will come.

Answer 9

I'm exactly the same though most people wouldn't believe me as its so rare these days and i'm 25 next weekend, be proud that you're not a sheep, you're UNIQUE not strange!

Answer 10

Nope, It's always good to have your first with this special one. There are many out there but the right one is hard to find it can take time. When the time comes you won't regret a thing.