what is it like to date a 'born again' christian woman? i am atheist?

Question

she has been 'born again' for 2 years now, 26 years old, sweet and nice personaltiy, repenting everything she has done in the past, goes to Bible studies every Monday night, i am athest, just wondering what am i getting into by dating her?

Answer 1

People have made things like this work, while others have run into troubles with it. In the long run, it's going to be difficult for you to be with someone who you can't really respect, and you're going to struggle with the fact that you're embarrassed by her behavior. But that's probably true to some extent for almost all couples - holding out for a perfect match is folly.

Answer 2

A religion alone never sustains any real relationship on enduring basis.If both of you accept each other in 'as is what is',then it's fine.There may be a remote chance of her expecting to make you a believer at some point of time but then,a 'born again' has the equal chance of coming around to your ways.It's equal and quits on that count as well. So,go ahead and make the best of it.

Answer 3

You're an atheist and she's a born again Christian, huh? It's almost cute. I recommend that you run... not walk, but RUN.

Answer 4

I think as with any religious person.. they will try to convert you... To be truly loved by someone or to love someone else accepting your differences and respecting each others beliefs is #1.. It can work if you both love your differences and each other..

Answer 5

Future arguments, for one.

But you never know. Keep in mind her goal will always be your conversion.

Give it a try. You may find out you get on well, or see above.

Answer 6

I don't think it will work. Because your views will get in the way eventually. But that might be God's plan at work!

Answer 7

Its as close to heaven as you can get on earth. Are you sure you want to go there?

Answer 8

A good woman is hard to find.

Answer 9

the sex is good for us..im an atheist

Answer 10

you both believe something else and theres going to come a time when she going to need a husband but a husband who loves God a husband who can pray for her in her time of distress and husband that can help her grow in jesus thourgh the word a husband that believes in God if you dont theres going to be arguments as she is going to want you to believe even though she may not false it on you
iam a christian woman i know and its says in the bible you cant be unevenly yoked with a unbeliever thats my opinion as you ask or you can ask yourself this do you think you are a good person

well first ask yourself have you kept Gods ten commandments
1) have you ever told a lie in your life?
2) have you ever stolen something in your life?
3) it says in Gods word that you must not murder, everyone says they have never murdered, but Jesus said murder begins in your heart so have you ever been angry and cursed someone for example, i hate you,die,idiot,fool etc ?
4) it says in Gods word you must not commit adultery, but Jesus said that whoever looks at a woman or a man to lust has commited adultery with him/her in his heart so ask yourself have you ever lusted.?
these are just 4 of the commandments, HOW DID YOU DO?
dont worry i have broken all of them. lol who hasnt told a lie etc.
Now ask yourself if God was to come back lets say tomorrow and judge you based upon his commandments knowing that you and i have broken all of them what do you think you would be innocent or guilty? if you choose innocent. think about this: like judges today in society if the judge is a Good judge wouldnt he punish murderers,rapist,pheados,liars,thieves etc well thats the same with God because God is a Good he would punish pheado,murderers,liars,rapists etc and would never allow them to enter heaven. if you know you would be guilty then you no you would also be going to hell. but let me tell a short story again imagine if theres a judge and a thief, the judge says to the thief you are guilty of your crime and going to jail but someone out of the blue came and said no i will take this Thiefs place send me to jail so that man paid the theifs fine. well thats what JESUS did we were all sentenced to hell but he paid the fine with his deaf on the cross so none of us need go to hell, all you need to do is ask for forgiveness of sins. AND YES some people think i dont want to give my life to God because i dont believe or i dont want to change my life etc but you dont know when you are going to die and if you do die lets say tomorrow you would go straight to hell and on judgement day you could never justify yourself before God because God will say i have given you a conscience and it bears witness to my ten commandment so for example you know when you tell a lie or something and you feel guilty well thats Gods ten commandments already in your heart so you are with out excuse. it say in JOHN 3,18 he who believes in him is not condemed (judged guilty) but he who does not believe is condemed already because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten son of God And this is the condemnation that the light has come into the world (jesus) and men loved darkness rather than light because there deeds were evil.(lieing,stealing,judging,murder,rap... speaking evil about others not likeing others etc) For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed. but he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen.

so you can continue with your arguments on evolution,and whatever theory you may have but one thing i will say you dont need proof to know that you have sinned and on the day of wrath (anger) we will all have to give account for what we have done in the body have we used are body to glorify God and love others or ourselfs are desires, you probably will tell me oh be quite i dont believe, you christians are all the same blah blah but one think i will say lean not on your own understanding of things but in all your ways trust in God,whether you believe or not, you will still have to face God on judgement day, if i step on to a motorway when a massive truck is heading for me and i say, i dont believe in trucks my lack of belief is not going to change reality.