Hi I know a friend who was hurted when he was 14 badly by a girl he loved she asked him out but no-one knew she was making fun of him . He used to be picked on alot by her and her friend and made his heart bleed for 2 years as she and this other guy used to stand outside his house kissing in a sexy way to each other and they put him inside a cell number of times when he used to get his own back because he was hurting deep badly in his heart, 7 years later now hes more grown up and more a man , sure he still hurting but now he wants to get his hand on them 2 so bad why is this? and why can't he just leave it?he lost a year of his school in 2000 and had to finish when he was 15 cause of all of this. He is full up with angry which before it was hurting him but now i think hes full up with up angry cause evertime he thinks of them u can see in his eyes that hurt but angry too but same time he said he got mix feelings still about her
2007-12-07 21:02:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say it so many times bullying in any form( and that's what this was) can have profound effects on a persons life for many many years afterwards.
You need to make this guy see that all this anger he still has , has to be dealt with or all he will do is waste his life trying to get even with someone who has never even given him a second thought. You need to make him see that by continuing this he is wasting his life and doing exactly what they expected of him when he was 14.Why should he waste his life hell bent on revenge when the people who were involved have probably not thought about him once. He needs to see someone about his anger issues and soon before it eats him up and destroys his life.
2007-12-07 21:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he hurts because of the actuions of the two people who hurt him. they were bullies, just going out to hurt him. You really need to be there for him. im sure he is a lovely person and i am sure he will find someone amazing soon. hurt can hurt for a long time. sometimes you get over it sometimes you cant. its just the way life is. its difficult. very difficult. just be there for him when hes upset or angry. the thing is he needs to be able to realise that she was never going to make him feel loved. she just wanted to get things out of him. you ned to make sure he knows that he is better off with out her. things like this dont always happen. just be there for him a comforting hug always helps. best of luck xxx
2007-12-07 21:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Bethann. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell ur friend 2 move on and 4get tha cheating of a girl and find some1 wos worth he while.
2007-12-09 06:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by sexkittn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's deeply emotionally scarred from it and is having trouble getting over it.
2007-12-07 21:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rainbowz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋