i have a bf, and yes.. i love him.. but sometimes, i feel like he doesn`t love me.. because he was just busy doin something..so, what i was doing when he got no time for me.. i talked to a friend, but! i crush this guy! ok! soo.. we talked often.. i mean, i talked to my bf only for a short time.. then days gone by, i'm fallin with my friend.. and i`m ignoring my bf already..
pls.. help me. what i should do? i both love them.. and i don`t know whom i love the most... its kinda bothering me already..
2007-12-07 20:42:05 · 9 answers · asked by kimmmy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make a smart decision and live with the consequences, consider which guy is better for you (as well as how you feel about them).
2007-12-07 20:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMW..... i'm in a similar situation so i can relate to the way you are feeling...and it's totally crap!!!
What you have to do is to sit still and think of who makes you happier and who you can picture yourself with happily in a couple of years from now...
Also think of the things that attracted you to your bf and what made you fall in love with him, and if the spark just is'nt there anymore then i suggest you take some time out and focus on yourself
Also think of the way your friend is going to react if you tell him that you are inlove with him...i mean, you would'nt want to ruin a wonderful friendship by telling him how you feel.
Drop hints...let your friend get the impression that you really like him and that you would be willing to end your relationship with you bf... and if your friend accepts the fact that you like him alot then you should make that move!!!
TELL HIM BEFORE IT"S TOO LATE!!!
If your friend is in love with you as well and is willing to start a relationship then you should end things with your bf because what's the use in being with someone when you are'nt benefitting from the relationship...
I know it's gonna be hard but you gotta take that 1st major step in finding true happiness because in the end of the day it's going to be your happiness that really counts!!!
Hope this answers your question... :-)
2007-12-08 04:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's totally unfair to your boyfriend to be seeing another guy "friend" if you're getting feelings for him. Dump your boyfriend and be sure to tell him that 1. you found someone else, and 2. he was too busy for you.
Live with whatever happens.
and yes, this is the reason guys get all jealous and threatened by a girlfriend's guys-who-are-just-friends.
2007-12-08 04:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like ur relationship has reached its peak a long time a go. if u were really that much into ur bf then u wudnt be attracted to sum1 else. have fun!
2007-12-08 04:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by Dream Knight! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with whoever you feel the most comfortable with. You don't have to be tied down if it causes you to cheat.
2007-12-08 04:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ ♥ ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide on which one you want to be with and don't toy with people's feelings. what goes around, comes around
2007-12-08 04:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by 1080 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont love anyone? get real
dump your boyfriend, go out with your new friend.
2007-12-08 04:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by FUCKYOU! REALESTATE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...its girls like you that make us guy ***holes
2007-12-08 04:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a player and keep both........
2007-12-08 04:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋