i have really been considering a threesome with my boyfriend of 2 years, and no its not all because of him lol i think it could be fun for me also im curious... if you have had one i would like to know ho wit went (especially if you are a girl!!!) and how it is know, i have some boundaries in mind that he cannot cross or our little fun thing is over but im not sure of all the boundaries... and im trying to work myself up with being comfortable seeing him kiss and touch another girl... i just need some kinda advise thank you!!!
2007-12-07 19:29:42 · 9 answers · asked by Beautiful B... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If youre going to have a 3some you cant really go into with boundaries. Youll be so pre-occupied watching and patroling the encounter to make sure no boundaries are crossed. So will they. If youre going to do it, go into with an open mind. My guess is you probably shouldnt do it. Too many insecurities. But if you are, heres what I suggest. You do it with both sexes. Seriously. You can tell him he doesnt have to touch the other guy or the other guy touch him. That way he can see how it might feel for you to have to share him. If he says fine then youre on your way to doing it. Next step is have him find the girl. That way you will be able to gage your own insecurities and jealousy when you watch him trying to meet the girl. If it makes your blood boil just to see him flirt, stop. Its not easy to watch first hand the guy you probably love get turned on by another woman. It stings. If its too much and what you are curious about is another woman, maybe just have him watch you and another girl and then join in when she can exit. Finally, the best thing you could do for yourself if you decide to proceed is call an escort. That way neither of you picked her. And its defenitely strictly about sex. Just an encounter. You wont even trip that she might be into your bf and try to see him again. Its all biz. Plus she will know how to guide you through it. My advice is dont do it. Wait until youre single(if that ever happens) and do it then. When theres no emotions involved. Then its a blast!
2007-12-07 19:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by aperfectpeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you cross the line, you can go back and take what is done. its all up to you if you wanna gamble your life away. this is not a game what children play. once you do that, your boyfriend might consider its okay to sleep with other women. youre just going to hurt the relationship. i understand you want that cause you want to spice up your sex life. if you are not serious with your current bf then you can have fun with him too. i wouldnt like to see my wife banging another man, or leaving me for another woman. its a no win situation. go ahead if its an easy thing for you to do. threesome is good when you are not in a relationship. lol i feel like a whore. you didnt hear that from me.
2007-12-07 19:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Junior V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had one, but was not in a relationship. I think it could get sticky if you do it with your boyfriend. It could leave too many doors open for too many things. We were all friends and had an understanding and because we were only dating and he wasn't my boyfriend. If he was, i probably wouldn't have done it.
2007-12-07 19:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by cutiepie28966 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no sexual experience, but I can safely predict it will end up in tears!But you should do your best to believe in yourself.Never let ourself down!
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2007-12-07 19:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good idea but I don't think your ready fr that. Wait 6 months and if it's still something you want then go for it.
2007-12-07 19:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by M J 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take an english class, your wall of text run on sentence is too hard to read.
2007-12-07 19:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have no sexual experience, but I can safely predict it will end up in tears!
2007-12-07 19:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you're seriously going to let your boyfriend cheat on you right in front of you?
2007-12-07 19:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think your ready!
2007-12-07 19:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋