my ex girl knows that im going out with her friend, and my ex girl told my new girl that im a good guy and that i will treat her well. and she also told my new girl that she knows that she screwed up our relationship, and that im a keeper. is that weird? im lost. please help
2007-12-07 19:22:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
every one is giving me different answers im not sure what to think now?
2007-12-07 19:53:49 · update #1
It's not weird if she now realizes that she's the one who screwed things up and that you really are a nice guy. She's wanting her friend to be with you so she has the opportunity to be with a good guy...not weird at all. I think it's quite nice, actually.
2007-12-07 19:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that is a little weird. Usually the friends of an ex are off limits and should be, especially if they are really good friends. Your ex might say shes cool with it, but it might get complicated down the line, especially if your ex has unresolved feelings. I just think that is never a good situation. There are plenty of nice women out there, so why stay in the same circles?
2007-12-07 19:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by cutiepie28966 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aight bro, i dont know if you took my advice last time... but i'm your contact... so i guess you did lol
now, i think this is kinda out of the norm, but i dont know the girl. girls are very close to each other, and with knowing that, she will tell the very truth to her "girlfreinds" as much as possible. atleast that is what i have found out in my experience. you know guys like to lie to each other just to look cool... or whatever ... but girls tend to be a LOT more truthful to each other. mmmm pple fritter... i am actually just eating one ... sorry for my little interuption. anyways, you need to ask your new gf is this is really what your ex told her, and if this is what your new girl told you... you still might want to be careful right now. your ex may be ok with this going on for now, but you can never tell how it might affect her in the long run, or maybe just even in like a week.
if you want to talk to me, email me, and we can set up a chat session on aim or google talk, or yahoo messenger... i still need to download it as my internet settings were a little screwy. but let me know if you need more help than that or not.
any by the way, take things kinda slow wit your new girl... your ex might not like this idea (secretly) and if she finds out you two move a little faster than she expected... it might cause some tension... so be careful
2007-12-08 09:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by NYN_one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rekon she's lying and is still into you.
Ever considered that?
She probably is just trying to be the bigger person so that she doesn't look hurt.
But I may be wrong.
I don't know the full story..
But just take a while to think about that.
Girls are odd..
Trust me kuz I am one.
They like to hide their feelings.
2007-12-07 19:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by xXChristina.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why your lost is because your not getting a reaction out of her...remember ex's are suppose to be mad and jealous, but since she's giving you the opposite reaction its sort of bothering you, it's almost like you were expecting a negative reaction out of her especially since your going out with her friend...but since she's acting like she's doesnt care....that is why you feel lost and you are wondering about that, but just let it go and move on luckily she's not a crazed ex.
2007-12-07 19:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably realy close to her friend and she is fully supportive towards her. She's also over you. She was just telling her friend the best part of the relationship that she had with you. Her friend is/was probably very nervous and she was just giving her words of wisdom
2007-12-07 19:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by gottaluvme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 12:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she doesn't agree with you going out with her friends, but sometimes people do the opposite of something to to reject what is happening. Maybe she still likes you.
2007-12-07 19:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by HyperActiveKid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she mite stil like you a little still but is trying to get over you. just be grateful that shes cool about it
2007-12-07 19:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by B R I E ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is kinda weird but dont overanalyze it. she probably doesnt have feelings for you anymore and just wants you and her friend to be happy
2007-12-07 19:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋