i was and am fifteen when i had sex with my seventeen year old boyfriend and now im pregnant and want the baby to live with him cuz my house is not healthy for the baby because people smoke in the house and they drink theres always people in the house its always loud in there and my brother is always in my stuff and i dont want him to do somthing that will hurt the baby and also my parents are always fighting and its loud i have noone to baby sit and i took all the babys cloth and items that i have for the baby already to my boyfriends house and my mom said that if i dont bring the babys stuff back to my house that shes going to call the cops and have him arrested for stat.. rape and i was wondering if it was illegal for him to have sex with me cuz i dont want him to get locked up and also i dont want the baby at my house and i think its my choice to have my baby live were i feel it is safe for him to live so will the police do anything about it if i was willing to have sex with him...
2007-12-07 18:49:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on which country you're in?The age varies...But is he able to support the child?
2007-12-07 18:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lonelycity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In Tn if you are more than 4 years apart it is or if you are like 13 or younger. Your state should have a web site you can look at. I know things seem ruff at your house but are you sure that you want your baby to go live with him because by law you cant wich means you will only see your baby when you get a chance to. If you feel like your house is such a problem and your mom does not want your baby to live some where else you should talk to her and your dad. Tell them it is your decsion that they have been good to you and you love them but that you only want what you feel is best and that they should understand that. Maybe you all can set down and talk and try to work things out.
2007-12-07 18:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by BWife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what state you live in...In Ga it is considered statutory rape if you are under the age of 16...I am sure there are circumstances..
I agree that the environment that you are in isn't healthy for the baby...
Here is a link that will tell you what age sex is considered legal:
http://www.sexlaws.org/answer_board
2007-12-07 18:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, depends where you are. Its usually 14 years old and 4 years age difference then sixteen is anyone some places. Other places its eighteen anyone. So with 14 you should be safe. No, it was not rape. No, it was not stat rape. For him to get arrested that have to have evidence that he raped you and your ages have to be under the limits.
2007-12-07 18:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the best answer that you can get is from a lawyer but generally it is under 18...but since your bf is also a minor maybe, just maybe there are some rules or laws exemption re the statutory rape situation that you are in. why don't you also ask the dept. of social welfare office close to your place of residence to assist you in some of the problems that you are in right now especially with regards to the baby's health a pre-natal care that you badly need.
2007-12-07 18:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off that law depends on the state for some it's 16 for some it's up to 18.Second beat your mother to it.Tell the cops your situation and ask them for advice as to what you should do,plus if she does call, the police will already know that she is lying and therefore can get her for making an unneccesary call.
2007-12-07 19:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by witcheshonor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i doubt it u should google ur city's laws good luck!
jus remember this though and im not tryin to be a hater or nothing like that but if ur child lives with ur bf and something happens and u 2 break up it wont b easy for u to get custody of ur child. jus a thought. think about what ur doing. god bless!
2007-12-07 18:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by silkydreamgirl10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could be statutory rape but i it al deppends alo i think that u have all the righ tto say where the baby should be but what does your boyfrind think about the baby staying with him?
2007-12-11 05:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by the games wifey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends where you live. Maybe you should google it or something. We don't know where you live so we can't tell you.
2007-12-07 19:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by BOOOOOOOOOOM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on where you live. do a google search for "age of consent" or check this link:
http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm
good luck.
2007-12-07 18:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋