i want to die?

Question

no body is taking me seriously. i told my dad and he doesn't take me seriously. my mom tells me to suck it up and i really am suisidal. i am not diret when i say it, but i always say that "i'm done" and "i am giving up on my life and i hoenstly don't care if i fail school" and my parents keep talking about how we have no money and we're 135,000 in debt and it stresses me out!!!! i hate my family and i hate life!!!!!! they cant afford theropy for me and nobody truly cares!!!!!!!!!!1

my dad even found out that i was bulimic 1 year ago and he didn't do anything!!! how can i get them to help me

Answer 1

LOOK IN THE PHONE BOOK AND CALL THE SUICIDE LINE IT'S FREE I THINK YOU WANT HELP YOU ARE TO YOUNG TO DIE YOU HAVE A FULL LIFE OUT THERE SO MAKE IT BETTER MAKE IT HAPPEN BE HAPPY NEVER GIVE UP ONLY THE STRONG SERVIVE

Answer 2

I believe you. You don't have to have money to get help. Go to your local emergency room and tell them you are suicidal and that you need and want help. They will get you help. I know that things seem helpless and hopeless but NOTHING will change if you hurt yourself except you would cause an undeniable amount of pain to the people who love you. Look your parents might be in a rough patch and have very little money but its not the end of the world. They might be in debt but the worse thing that can happen is their credit might be effected for a while until things get better for them. But that isn't your problem right now you are what is important. I have a little girl who is 11 and a 13 year old boy and no amount of money is worth their life. You could have all that I own...which isn't much but Even if I was a billionaire..If I had to choose between money or my children I would be homeless with my babies before I knew it. You are loved by more people than you know I am sure and You are so young. God has a plan for your life. His plan doesn't include you ending such a beautiful and wonderful life YOU MATTER!!! Please go to the hospital or at least go to your school counselor..they will be able to help you too. Just go get some help to get over this.

Answer 3

You dont want to die other wise you would be dead! I understand life can be tuff but you need to look at it this way. You are not the only one going through this right now and even though you have to deal with this it is not your problem. How do you think your parents feel right now they are in big debt and they have a daughter going psycho. You think you have it bad all you are doing is making it worse. Ive been where you are coming from and i am not trying to be mean, but you dont want to die. Life will get better you just need to give it time and stop making it worst then what it needs to be. You are talking about how it is so horrible that your parents cant afford therapy for you because they are in debt but you say you need it because they are in debt. If you hate your life so bad then make a difference. You are not the only one having problems.

Answer 4

First off you shouldn't be worried about your parents finances becuase that is their problem not yours. Of course that doesn't mean you should contribute to their problem by spending a lot.
Always remember that your parents do care...'There is no love in the world that can compare to the love of a parent for a child' My parents always say that to me...that no matter who I love if I have a child that love will eclipse everything in life. So I have no doubt that your parents love and trust you to always do the right thing.
The reason they aren't paying attention to you is because they are worried about money when you worry about money it only makes you focus on one thing and that is getting more money.
If you want them to be a little bit more aware of your feelings you could sit down and talk to them both at the same time...let them know that you're feeling a lot of stress and it's making you feel like you aren't needed. Also tell them anything else that you haven't added into your question. You have to be brutally and openly honest for them to take you seriously. If you keep a journal highlight all the times you said you wanted to die and show it to them. That way they can see that you are being honest and not making something up for attention.
If you don't feel comfortable talking to them talk to your friends...chances are some of them sometimes feel exactly like you do...if they confess to you listen and don't ignore them so they can feel like they can trust you too.
Above all remember that there is no reason in this life that you should die...because you are feeling depressed your brain is telling you that it's logical at the moment to die...but life always gets better with time. If you push through this now you'll be a much stronger person.

Answer 5

Do you have a good friend or may be even a parent of one of your friends that you feel you can trust? What about a single teacher that you like (even if you're not doing well in the class or they are from a younger grade)? People all have those thoughts, it is when you feel them constantly that they are an issue, believe me I tried it. I take you seriously even if you don't know me. But think, there probably is a person you could safely go to. I know that you're parents aren't helping: it is hard enough being a teenager without taking on the burden of your parents' issues, but try to seperate what your issues are from the issues that you shouldn't have to worry about and find a person to talk with.

Answer 6

If you really want help go to a church and talk to a pastor. A good pastor is the best hope for depression! I could get in trouble for answering you with this response but the truth is it is a spiritual problem...sounds like family has some messed up priorities! Also remember that you are bound to be going through a lot of very big ups & downs in life but these years that you are in are some of the toughest as far as depression goes!
Please, whatever you feel believe that it will pass, have hope for something better and seek help from someone who is wise!

I will pray for you because feeling suicidal is a very scary place to be...I was there once!

Answer 7

get on with your school and get into a good college and then go and build yourself a better life somewhere else.

TO DIE or not TO DIE. always a good question when i came across this path. I was in a pretty much similar situation but my mum was left to raise me by herself with only £10 a week to spend on food and to fuel the car. How she did it god knows?

I decide after a week that if i wasn't here everyone would be better off. I grabbed a pen knife and went to plunge it in my heart. I just peirced the skin and realised i couldn't do it. WHY you may ask.

Well it dawned on me my mum was managing to do all of this for me and she needs my support if i wasn't there she would of probably followed me.

I suggest you take a good look at your life and see how much your friends and family need you. Why do they do what they do and what will happen once your gone. You may be suprised at how much you mean to people and what little things you can do to make everyones life better as well as your own.

You have been given a chance to live use it while you can things can only get better.

Answer 8

You need to find it in yourself to pull it together. I am taking you seriously. I know how it feels. I had a lot of bad emotions and terrible parents when I was growing up. Do you have friends that can help you vent? If not, there are alot of resources out there for you. You can call a hotline to talk to someone. There are phone numbers in the front of the phone book that you can call. You can go to the local Health Department to get help. You can go to your school conselor. That is what they are there for. Suicide isn't the way out. Don't use that to get back at your parents for being stupid and not paying attention to you. If you want something done you will learn that you will have to do it yourself. Look into resources to help yourself. You have to realize that you were put on this earth for a reason and not to waste it by comitting suicide. You have your whole life ahead of you and the pain is only temporary. If I would have pulled that trigger 17 years ago, I would have missed out on the most wonderful Man that came into my life and the most beautiful children that he gave me. It gets better. Your life is what you make of it. Don't let your parents take you down with them. Get around people that make you happy. Surround yourself with them, and tell them what you are going through. Everyone gets depressed, it is how we react to it. Be strong and pray to the Lord to make it go away soon. Good Luck and Be Brave!

Answer 9

but this is only a small part of your life...consider it an incubation period. The problems you have now are going to disappear in a few years...you'll have your own friends your own house..and have a chance to see and do things you never dreamed of doing.
When I was a kid, my father died. I had to start work at 12...I had no money and hardly any friends. My mother was trying to support five of us. I would have never thought that years later, I would have my own house, wife, children, A job I care about and freedom to do as I wish.
IF you hang on, you can have all of it. Don't throw it away for the problems that you are seeing today.
Just because you look outside and its raining...do you say "That's it, its miserable outside. I am never going out again!" No, because you know the weather changes....The same goes with life....it changes.
Wait for the sun to come out.

Answer 10

People do care. Your parents are temporarily too stressed to give you much attention right now. They obviously have faith in you, though, and know that you can get through tough times.

Talk to a school counselor and get help. You are not alone. Many families are stressed right now about financial problems. The housing market is in a record-breaking slump and the economy is pretty soft all around. It's not fair, I know. Your strength right now could help a lot of people who are in the same situation. These are tough times, there is no doubt, but we can get through them together. That is the best way.

Peace, joy, and the best of luck to you! Your life has tremendous value and purpose. Who knows?...your positive attitude right now could help many....even your own parents!

Answer 11

Please find someone to talk to, either your counselor at school. They typically care, you can tell right away if they dont but try. Call the suicide prevention hotline (from experience, they will talk to you forever and they do make you feel better). Hopefully you really don't want to die, you just want someone to know your alive. And you just writting this is a step - we are all but strangers here, but I guarantee most that will read your post and will respond feel painges for you. Most of us have been there, felt that. That is what makes us humans - we grieve, we fall, we suffer great sacrifices, we HURT! But we also love, enjoy and have fantastic wonder times. Your parents sound like jerks....they maybe - I am a parent and I see plenty of other parents my age and I want to punch them smack in the nose. But your parents might be good parents just going thru a hard time themselves and haven't yet realized they are involving you. You'll be an adult soon and if your parents aren't descent, you don't have to have them in your life once you leave. Just do please talk to someone as soon as possible and know ppl do care, you just have to find them.