when a guy does that do you lose respect for him or do you just figure its a natural thing.
odd question i know but i am curious. i think i am guilty of it even though i try very hard not to do that. i am a really nice person too and not a pervert so i feel bad that it is probably not going unnoticed.
2007-12-07 18:16:43 · 15 answers · asked by None 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Twist,
Very big of you to admit this and not consider yourself a perv! Cute.
Anyway, I will answer this because if I collected a dollar for everytime a guy stared at my boobs I'd be able to finally take that cruise on the Queenie 2 that I've been wanting!
I have been getting stares for so long it's just a natural thing to me...to be honest. If I'm in a pissy mood...I do get annoyed and roll my eyes at them...just to embarrass them and make them aware that I know what you are looking at...freak! But any other day it's like..ok whatever they are just big breast get over it already!
However, I loose respect for guys who stare with their woman right there..that's really mean and rude...but I laugh to myself when I notice their woman staring...hahahahahaha!!!
Yeah.."my girls" will put you in a trance...
2007-12-07 18:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
When I was in middle school and high school, the adolescent boys used to have no control over where their eyes went! My girlfriends and I would just laugh at them. Sometimes I would snap my fingers in front of my eyes so their head would look up and they'd be embarrassed :)
As an adult, I never see guys looking at my breasts b/c they know better and have more self control. Who knows if they look at my butt b/c I'd be turned around :)
If you are a grown man and still doing that, you need to STOP or people will think you're a pervert.
2007-12-08 00:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by Shana B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault. And you're not a pervert.. unless of course you are just O-,O staring. I don't believe you are. But looking at the wonders of women is natural and primal. Plus, it's vital to that whole mating and producing offspring thing.
Be careful. And if girls are just.. ON DISPLAY, then it's .. negative your fault. If those girls get angry, then give 'em a piece of your mind. They're the naughty ones, what with the cleavage of various natures.
Don't feel bad. :)
2007-12-09 16:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I don't catch most guys because they don't stare, they probably do the look away, look, look away, look thing. When I've caught guys doing this I end up crossing my arms and wishing they would go away. I dont like being leered at for something as stupid as breasts. If you know you do this, I'd suggest trying really hard to stop because it makes me feel cheap, and like you're not listening to me.
I'm talking when I'm wearing everyday clothes. I'm not the type to wear low-cut things or tight pants.
2007-12-07 23:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Dig It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well, i think it's in your nature. but whenever we feel a guy looking at our breasts or butt, it's really kind of embarrassing and we feel like we are being harrassed along like a piercing stare from you guys. but as for my opinion, it's natural, but i suggest that if you can't prevent it, be just like not too obvious. well it depends in the situation, if a guy's too harrassing, we might as well give you guys a big nice slap on the face! hehehehehehe.. and do you do it intentionally?
2007-12-07 18:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by findingjannil 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they didn't want you looking, they wouldn't put it on display. It kills me to see a woman in tight jeans and a low cut blouse, and then rip some guy a new one for checking out what she put on display. If she didn't want the attention, she wouldn't put it out there.
As for myself, no, it doesn't bother me. If it did, I'd dress more modestly. As to how I dress, depends on where I'm going and my mood, but you can bet, I'm not going to wear something low cut, and than rip some one for noticing.
Now, if he just sits and stares with drool running down his chin, I can see where that would become annoying. Same as in a conversation, eye contact is a good thing. But the occassional glance is nothing to get worked up over.
2007-12-07 19:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ista 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Well I have a crush and I would probuly say YUCK
But I dont were T-shirts which you can see breast or butt only sometimes. Another thing is I dont like strangers seeing my butt and breast but i think for my crush it ok. I will feel bad and good !!!!
2007-12-07 18:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Daily, and it makes me feel sexy...provided it's my husband doing the looking! And I definitely don't lose respect for him :) Besides, I'm usually checking out his cute little tush when he's not looking.
2007-12-07 19:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Hamlette 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try harder to hide it or stop doing it. getting caught is so uncool. i'm rather amused if i catch someone looking at me, but thats only because i'm too spacey most times. but i saw this interaction regularly while playing on a blackjack game. very interesting.
2007-12-07 18:27:08 · answer #9 · answered by satya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyday. I do not lose respect but I am not a piece of meat.
2007-12-07 19:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋