is it still wrong if u use a condom?
2007-12-07 18:08:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It is a bible command.
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2007-12-07 18:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it wrong have sex before marriage, even if you use a condom. Image you and girlfriend (who you love and had plan to married) were about have sex. While taking her panties off you notice she has a very small penis just along above her vagina. You ask her about it and she tells you she was born a hermaphrodite. Can you tell me with a straight face that you would still plan to marry your girlfriend when she is a hermaphrodite? Now image the same scenario, but on your honeymoon. You see her little pecker and you figure "hey I spent this much money the wedding I'm going to get some tonight!" So you just duck tape Mr. Wang to her stomach and your good to go. Now the difference between those two scenario's is that in the first one you couldn't except your lovers body because you hadn't may any commitment. God knows that people are more likely to accept people with aesthetic flaws (like a small penis above the vagina) if they have spent thousands of dollars on that person in the form of a wedding.
2007-12-08 03:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by jetthrustpy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong but we should have to know that is the sex(copulation) is essential for a human ? the answer would be in yes but another question is why? than the answer is that the sex(copulation) is only the requirement to produce the next human crop not for enjoyment. So sex/copulation should be done when one has requirement of next crop of human not for enjoyment. So it is a bounding only to get first marry and then get sex only. May it done without condom but only to one woman or man
2007-12-08 02:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by loving_human 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people claim the bible says that it is wrong to have premarital sex. The only thing I have found in the bible is the statement that sex is God's gift to married people. This doesn't mean sex outside of marriage is wrong. Besides, if you read the bible, there are plenty of instances where people were rewarded for having sex outside of marriage.
2007-12-08 02:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mikey's Mommy 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well the way I see it, since the first marriage was between Adam and Eve, so everyone's sex is technically after marriage; although perhaps not their own.
2007-12-08 02:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by STFU Dude 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is meant to be enjoyed between a husband and wife only because promiscuity spreads disease, unwanted pregnancies, and weakens the bond and connection that should be shared in a marriage. Like a secret that no one else can know. It makes it special.
2007-12-08 02:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by u_luv_tiffany 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The power to create and procreate is one of the greatest powers of God. By allowing us to create children through sexual relations, God is sharing a great power with us. But He has said that it should be used only within marriage.
In response to the previous answerer's comment, the commandment is "Thou shalt not commit adultery." In Biblical language adultery includes pre-marital sex as well as sex with someone other than a spouse.
2007-12-08 02:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by drshorty 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's only wrong for women to.
(The Double Standard.)
Personally, I would only marry a virgin.
Any woman who looses her virginity to one man and marries another...Well, thats just nasty.
I mean, she is then like a used tissue...
You see, women are not Men.
They are objects of beauty & seduction.
That is why it is so wrong to have multiple partners & affairs.
It creates Jealousy, Envy, Hatetred, Lies, & STD's.
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"Whose report will you belive?
We shall believe in the report of the Lord"
2007-12-08 02:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by Andre 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The Bible says it's wrong. Use your own judgment.
2007-12-08 02:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Freedom Rocks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married until after you've taken a test ride.
2007-12-08 02:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋