Im a black guy 21 years of age. And i think my sex appeal attracts women that aren't black. So its hard for me to get a black girlfriend, and its alot easier for me to get a white girlfriend. Granted i am almost the perfect guy, is this wrong? And i want to know if this looks bad, are most of you still against this kind of stuff. I mean, honestly.
Why do I say im perfect? well im a successful investor, and right now i make more money than my parents who i once thought were very successfull. I drive an awesome (gas gussler) car, and i live in probably the best condo you can get in Buckhead (atlanta) Im a good looking guy with a lot of confidence because at this point of my life i feel happy. I really have no worries and I know im set for life. My brother is graduating from duke this year and is hopefully off to harvard law(cross fingers) Worst case NYU. We were always middle class.
Everything right now is perfect. Except im self conscience about the women i date, should i be?
2007-12-07 17:41:16 · 5 answers · asked by Remy Lebeau! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was never really a good student, thats why i got into investing (it doens't take book smarts, just motivation and parents with a couple thousand dollars to throw away).
I dont to bars becasue i dont drink, but when i do go to a place like a bookstore i can strike up a conversation with the prettiest girl there. I am dating a young lady now, and she is perfect but i am self conscience, but she isn't. Thats why im asking you guys if i should be self conscience. We are equal in every way. Her parents are very sucessfull, so her dad really likes me and we can talk busness. She is a knockout, drop dead gorgeous (prom queen).
Depending on what you guys say will change everything.
2007-12-07 17:46:04 · update #1
oh, its not that i prefer black women, i just dont want to feel self conscience about who im with. So if its fine for me to date whom ever then i will, but if its not, then i will have to get a blk lady
2007-12-07 17:54:46 · update #2
character and moral standings? I think im a good guy. I dont upset anyone, im laid back. This is where i can express myself.
2007-12-07 17:56:13 · update #3
i dont know if its worth it. If i had too, maybe i would move to somewhere more liberal like NYC. But thats the thing, i wouldnt want to force this.
2007-12-07 18:05:07 · update #4
What about your character and moral standing?
2007-12-07 17:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never worry about what race the woman is that you date! If you are attracted to a white woman that is no problem, but if it seems as if you want a black woman. Some people are still stuck in the 50's and look down upon interracial relationships, but its 2007! Some people have a stereotype that whenever a black man is successful, he ends up with a white woman! It shouldn't make a difference on what race a girl is as long as you two care about one another!
2007-12-07 17:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by Kyle B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Black women don't care who you date. We just want for you fufill your roles as black men by reaching out and asserting positive peer pressure on your black peers so that the hundreds of thousands of robberies, murders and rapes done by black men will end. Instead a full 50% of you are foaming at the mouth criminals and the other half spend all your time chasing after white chicks. Until black men stop being 8x as likely to murder people you will never have anyone's respect -- so feel self-conscous about that instead whining about this white woman crap.
2007-12-07 19:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by monski 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my sister is dating a black guy and thats totally cool right? well i'm not racial at all but my parents are and so is most of society... well now she is 17 and pregnant... and thats all fine... but most mixed children have a harder time adjusting. me and her are really close and she told me that they deal with a LOT of pressure from everyone looking at them wrong. the black women look at her... meanly i guess lol... and the white ones too... and i just sort of had a question for you... is it really worth all of the trouble... i mean if you really love someone... if you have the connection with someone then other peoples opinions shouldn't matter in the least... but personally... would all the stress be worth it...
2007-12-07 17:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by Meat.Puppet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what... arrogance and being overly self confident are two of the biggest turn offs in the world. Please tone it down a little for goodness sake. If you think so much of yourself, why are you so self conscious about dating white women? Are you saying black women don't see your "sex appeal"?
2007-12-07 17:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by kyliekissesx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋