Not by 15 pounds. I mean someone who was pretty heavy. I have and I enjoyed it. The heavy girls I dated were sweet,caring and fun to be with. And the sex was damn fine!
2007-12-07 17:35:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to answer the question first, "No" (even at 15 lbs over is pushing it)
anyways, i know there are a lot of people out there who truly do not care of superficial characteristics and are not shallow whatsoever, but for the other 90% of us, appearance plays an extremely important part.
i have nothing against overweight people and i am sure many of them are sweet and caring, but i would personally find it very difficult to consider those traits romantically along with the weight.
the fact of the matter is, inner beauty is seldom recognized in the absence of outer beauty. sure, you may think that the fat girl is a sweet person, but while laying in bed, do you think about how nice she is? probably not. you think about the gorgeous girl you just met who also happens to be very sweet.
2007-12-07 18:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by andrewhuynh265 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've been married twice to men who are overweight and frankly I love a man who is substantial. Skinny guys are too self absorbed. Also there's something about the "feel" of a fat one.. I can't explain. I can just say there's definiately a "market" for it.
2007-12-08 01:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah of course. appearance doesn't really play a part in it to me. it's 5 percent looks and 95 percent personality. my guy could weigh 400 pounds but as long as he could make me laugh/smile thats the only thing that really matters... and people who only date for looks end up being unhappy in the long run because they pick people with no personality lol.
besides... how can you sit on a couch with a heap of bones lol... feels like cuddling with a cactus lol.
2007-12-08 01:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by Meat.Puppet 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. absolutely huge, I doubt it. I atleast want the person I am with to be healthy, like to do things and be able to keep up with what I enjoy.
2007-12-08 01:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Car 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im too self conscience to date a big girl. i will feel like everyone was looking at me thinking "she must be rich" or "he must have some weird fet..." but than again that must be in my head becasue i can be friends with big girls, and walk around with them, and i wouldnt think those things. Becasue i feel like everyone knows we are just friends. Its weird, i think im crazy
2007-12-08 01:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by Remy Lebeau! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats good that your arent so shallow..
i dont mind guys with a bit of chub myself..
i prefer chubby guys to skinny guys..
2007-12-08 01:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would know need for one of us to worry about how we look naked during sex!! Size doesn't affect the heart. Skinny people can be evil!!!
2007-12-08 01:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by Redcianna 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I like my man to have meat on his bones! The slender ones are to bony!
2007-12-08 01:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by Linda S 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly ok. Appearance doesn't last, it's that inner feeling that lasts forever.
2007-12-08 01:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by Athrun 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont like skinny guys! and if the guy is down to earth then who cares about his weight!!
2007-12-08 01:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋