okay so i met this girl last year and like i had a girlfriend and i really didnt like he girl i met i just had fun to piss her off and then like at the end of the school year after i broke up with my girlfriend i actually started to like that girl. anyways this year im much nicer to her and like we talk sometimes but im afraid i screw up last year im afraid she wont go out with so what should i do, should i wait longer to make a friendship then a realtionship or should i just go for it or any other options???
2007-12-07 16:23:05 · 14 answers · asked by MathRocks 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should test the waters before you dive in!! Become her friend again with a little side flirting, when the time seems right, take the dive.
2007-12-07 16:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by punkzoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say definately make the friendship, but show that you are interseted at the same time, if that makes sense. Like "Hey, I think you're cute and I'd like to date you, but I also think you're a great girl who I wouldn't mind being friends with." Its sorta win win that way!
2007-12-08 00:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not put so much focus into this relationship, just take your time and go with the flow, if it happens then it will, but if it doesn't then move on! She probably isn't the only one, or she maybe the ONE!!!! but either way there's other fish in the pond!!
2007-12-08 00:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mmmommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The law of attraction working it's best magic here. Develop a friendship with her and pray she gives your sorry butt the time of her day.
2007-12-08 00:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should bring it up to her of what u did lastyear and do your apologizing.she would eventually forgive u.then after that just start to hang out more and go to movies and stuff.Build up a strong friendship and then finally ask her the big question..which is "Will u go out with me"
lol
2007-12-08 00:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No make a good relationship NOW. The sooner the better. The more time you waste, the more self-confidence you will lose.
2007-12-08 00:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are upfront w her about your earlier screwup, and apologize for being a jerk before, because you see how special she is now, that will make you look great, and her reaction will tell you a lot about whether she will date you.
2007-12-08 00:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize for acting like a jerk. Then take it slow--- get to know her and make sure you do want more than friendship from her.
2007-12-08 00:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by raininggreenbug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it!!!!
you only have a few chances, so you should use them. What are you going to loose?? Just tell your self that it doesnt matter if she says no. Than when she answers, you wont be as confused.
i noe this is reallii cheesy but my bff said this to me one day:
"expect the unexpected"
2007-12-08 00:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by X♥X_PNkPuNkPriNCeSS_X♥X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her. Read her mind. Ask directly whether she would like to go out with you.
2007-12-08 00:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by stayathomemom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋