2007-12-07 16:02:42 · 12 answers · asked by landon m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude I am 21 and looking at 14 year olds is like looking at babies. You're a freaking pedo, emotionally retarded and maturity isn't looking so hot either. LEAVE THIS KID ALONE AND FREAKING GET SOMEONE YOUR OWN AGE YOU 20 yr old PEDO. God You can wait until she is 18 but by then hopefully she is dating a man WHO CAN GET A WOMAN HIS OWN AGE YOU PATHETIC MESS. STAY AWAY from her. you should know better
DR LUV my aunt and uncle are 21 years apart...the difference she was 30 WHEN THEY STARTED DATING you get that??? I mean I am sorry but 14 to 20 is a HUGE difference a 14 year OLD IS A CHILD compared to 20. It's illegal for a reason
2007-12-07 16:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by happygolucky 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
( Your age / 2 ) + 7 = the minimum age of any love interest for you for it to not be creepy.
In this case, not only is it creepy, it's almost certainly illegal for you two to have any kind of sexual contact. So keep it just friends for...well, at least until she's 16 in some places, or 18 most places.
And BTW, it will still be a little creepy for you to be dating an 18 year old when you're 24. It won't be not-creepy until you're 26 and she's 20. (26/2)+7= 20
2007-12-08 00:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is the question? You seem to realize there is something a little "off" about the situation or you wouldn't be writing, would you? It just seems very bizarre that you are that old and hanging out with someone that much younger. If I were the 14 yo's parent, I would NOT be happy. You should have friends your own age!
2007-12-08 00:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 14 year old is still a child, and you, at 20, are an adult. Now, if she were say, 22, and you were 28, it wouldn't be a problem. Just wait until she is older. But IMHO, even if you did wait, it would still seem weird. I like a guy right now who is 9 years younger than me, but we are both over 18. It's not like I knew him when he was under 18.
2007-12-08 00:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by So adorable 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude thats just wrong there littile kids! how can u feel that way about someone that could be so young that is just wrong! meet some girls your age and stop checkin out kids. the next thing u know you'll be askin is it ok to like a 12 year old? think!! it's sexual herrasment if u do any thing with her. that just goes against my whole book. i am just sayin take a look at your life and see were it's heading. tell me. has anything good come out this littile crush? U PERV!
2007-12-08 00:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by wings of an angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omfg, dont do anything with her at all because 14 year olds get attached to older loser guys because they think they are cool.why are you trying to create problems in your life there are plenty of hot 20 year olds so back off the youngsters. i have friends that dated guys way older than they were and the older guys get the girls in the worst of trouble especially with their parents. you better loose interest in her because thats sick and this is coming from a 16 year olds opinion.
been there done that.....not a happy ending :(
2007-12-08 00:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by xxxburnoutxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you already asked a question similar to this? It doesn't matter if you like her, she's OFF LIMITS, dude! I don't know what kind of responses you are expecting as anyone in their right mind will tell you just DON'T go there with a girl that age!
P.S Next time include an actual question rather than a statement.
2007-12-08 00:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Astrid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to her but man Don't even think of havin sex with her because thats rape. there are women that are 20 married to guys that are 40 and people dont mind. but you have to wait till she is over at least 17. Any guy over 16 that has sex with a girl 15 and under is rape.
2007-12-08 00:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Luv 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to stop hanging out with her, or you will get arrested. why are you interested in a girl that young anyway? why arnt you looking at girls your age, or girls 18 or older. cmon man, makin guys look bad.
2007-12-08 00:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by bacdafuxup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop this and start hanging out again once she's 18. You are treading on thin ice.
2007-12-08 00:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋