I need some ideas on ways to propose on christmas
please help i got some ideas but i dont think there so good so please leave feed back
2007-12-07 15:57:35 · 11 answers · asked by blazerican05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Hi there. My husband proposed to me on Christmas Eve. We went for a drive, to a nice area, where the scenery was pretty, and we went on a walk, while he was talking to me about how much he cared about me and Loved me.. then when he found his perfect spot, he knelt down, in the snow, and proposed. I thought it was sweet, the only thing I will say, is that I did see it coming, because it just seemed that way.
But it was nice, and sweet.
I am glad that he didnt do it in front of a crowd of people though, because I think it's something that should be more personal, between just you too. But that is just my opinion.
I hope everything works out for you! and congratulations!!
good luck.
2007-12-07 16:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by Butterfly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awwww congrats!! Lets see, think opening a box by the christmas tree..... or having the little box with the ring in the tree... Or do it on Christmas eve night if ya'll are going to be together and alone, have the bedroom or room by the tree with candles lite soft christmas music playing in the background, maybe both ya'll snuggled up in nice new pair of PJs (good distraction gift matching PJs or something lol) over some egg nog go over to the tree or something and be like ohhh look I found something when she asks what it is pop the question or something along those lines... that way the next day on Christmas she can tell everyone. I've been married going on 6 years and Christmas Eve night always seems to be the romatic part of Christmas for us adults.
2007-12-08 00:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, this is a perfect time to do it! You will have plenty of chances to take her somewhere without her suspecting that you will propse. Its always so much nicier when they dont suspect! You can do the take her out to a nice restaurant thing but thats been done too much i think. How about you go for a drive to see all the CHristmas lights on the house. Find somewhere thats high and has a view of the houses and lights and do it there. Whatever you chose to do Im sure she will love. Good luck
2007-12-08 00:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my boyfriend is about to propose for Christmas too...I found the ring so I know...but I was thinking of ways he could do it too...
My friends fiance did like a treasure hunt kind of thing. For instance you could just give her clues from one place to the place where you first meant, and then a clue to the place where you had your first date, and then a clue to the place where you will propose...and there you could have candles and flower petals all around and you could be waiting there on your knee. I would suggest doing it on Christmas eve...that way she can show it off on Christmas Day.
Trust me...she will love whatever you do....
2007-12-08 02:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by Soon to be Mrs. Welsh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, that's so adorable! Now, you don't want her to suspect what you're doing, so don't make it SO romantic and that she'll know before you kneel. :) i would suggest that you exchange presents first, (still get her something nice that she'll like so that she my think that's the biggest thing she's getting). then go to dinner somewhere nice. the proposal should be somewhere that means something to you both, like maybe where you met, or where you first kissed, or where you like to spend time together...
OR you could wait to do it until you take her home that night. ive always thought that it would be super romantic to be cuddling in front of a fire on a couch or something, and then all of a sudden for him to assume the position and pop the question. but if there's no fireplace available, just take her home and have a snuggle fest. you know, be all cutesy, show her you love her, not that you want her in bed. then ask. she'll be ecstatic.
2007-12-08 00:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by sillygoose08 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you put the ring box inside of another box of a larger size and wrap it (or have it wrapped =) as an ordinary gift. Let it be just the two of you when she opens it--if you have a fire place, have a fire going and sit before it--and while she's staring at the ring in surprise/confusion, get down on one knee in front of her, tell her that you love her, and ask her to marry you.
2007-12-08 01:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by LunaRossa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, congratulations!!
Just an idea... not one you need to go with of course... I come from a family of "pranksters" - so this probably wouldn't be quite so fitting to everyone...
Why not present the ring to her in a BIG box... like so:
She sees this HUGE wrapped box, opens it up, and there's another wrapped box inside... she opens that to find another wrapped box & so on... till she FINALLY gets to the little wrapped box inside... and when she opens that... that's when you propose - mind you... by this time she'll likely have an inkling of what's to come...
as I said... just an idea...
Good luck with which ever way you choose ("humour" may not be for everyone...
I was trying on bridesmaid dresses for my now mother-in-law's second wedding with my partner, when he handed me a dress and told me to try it on... his next words to me were "it fits... so how about it?!" - not "romantic" - but DEFINATELY suiting to our relationship!!
2007-12-08 00:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i like the whole idea of leavin it to the very end like givin her a so so gift becuz wen she starts to think oh he doesnt like me and have a lil bit of doubts u can show how much u do love her. well my parents anniversary my dad told me to hide the jewelry someone so i got this cake and i but the necklace in foil, the i put a strawberry on the hole and it was the only strawberry there so i knew were the necklace was, so wen we cut the cake to serve my dad gave the one wit the strawberry and she saw the foil and i think u get wat happens next
but just incase u should let everyone around no wats happenin with the cake
hope i could help and good luck =]
2007-12-08 00:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u know her better than us try and think of things and places that are special to her and to both of yall as a couple and center it around that. and no matter how u do it she will never forget it and it is one of the most special days in any womans life. congrats
2007-12-08 00:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by cajunbaby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should do it on Christmas Even while looking at Christmas lights! I think that would be really romantic.
2007-12-08 02:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by . 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋