if u new u were ugly, (but you actually were ugly). but u were fine with that and didnt mind?
2007-12-07 14:02:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
or low self confidence
2007-12-07 14:09:31 · update #1
i dont think im ugly, lets say ur eyes were really smal ur face wasnt semtical and u were extrmely skinny or fat
2007-12-07 14:39:36 · update #2
No. Not a disorder.
2007-12-07 14:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing that you have an undesirable (but difficult to fix) trait - and being willing to live with it - is a sign of self-acceptance. This is a good thing. It is the people who could not accept that condition that have a disorder.
Also, ugly is in the eye of the beholder, as is beauty. When you see poker tournaments on TV, or if you know anyone who plays tournament bridge, you would understand. It is not the cards you are dealt. It is what you do with them that counts.
And as far as "ugly" goes... if you can look at your wrist watch and it doesn't explode on your wrist, you aren't ugly. If your face can stop a clock... THEN you are ugly.
Now, there is one more thing to remember... Being OK with who and what you are is a very good place to be. Don't let jealousy (of others' "better" looks) creep into your life. Beauty comes from within. It comes from carrying yourself proudly. it comes from knowing that you are good person. It comes from learning to let go of selfishness, hatred, jealousy, and a desire for revenge. LIVE your life. Learn to have fun. You might just be surprised at what happens when you show folks just how happy you are with yourself.
In fact, if your new attitude is strong enough, others might be jealous of YOU! (Or at least they'll want to know what you know and they don't know...)
2007-12-07 22:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by The_Doc_Man 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well ugly is a matter of perspective usually influenced by culture.
So, if someone with useless judgement points fingers at people they deem ugly, and the person is fine with their appearance..no that's not a disorder.
People are free whether by law or whether by what they feel to look however they want.
Symmetry is a sign of health. Non symmetrical people are ugly in my opinion and that's not influenced by culture but by biology.
2007-12-07 22:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by J.M.W. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all who defines beauty!? Is it you weight, your hair,your able to take pain?! But no its not a disorder, it call being OK with your self. And that is good.
2007-12-07 22:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't it be a better world if more people were satisfied with their looks and then moved on to growing as confident, intelligent individuals!
2007-12-07 22:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it shows that you have a positive perspective and you appreciate what god gave you
2007-12-07 22:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by yez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's confidence and high self esteem :D Something I wish I had...
2007-12-07 22:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by Dani K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, THAT WOULD NOT BE ANY DISORDER I HEARD OF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-08 11:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋