3 relationship questions please answer?

Question

Now for the past few months i have been doing this musical in my Musical thea. class and there is tis really great girl in the class she is playing the lead. She is cute smart nice talented down to earth and she has a great personality. Now we talk a little and the 14th is opening night but thats beyond the point I want to tell her how I feel but alot of us under alot of stress and I dont want to cause more stress or drama so here are the questions.

1) should I tell her before or after the production
2) how do I tell her
3) Should I wait

Answer 1

(1) I would wait until after the production. You said it yourself, there is enough stress going on in both of your lives right now. Get through the production then tell her. If she doesn't feel the same way, you will both be uncomfortable.

(2) How do you tell her? How about telling her what you just told us?

I haven't met a girl yet that doesn't like to be told they are "cute, smart, nice, talented, and has a great personality"! (Although you may want to limit yourself to a couple adjectives, not all of them.)

(3) This is the same question as #1. Only you can decide when the time is right.

Answer 2

Hi hi...
Based on your 'I don't want to cause more stree or drama' here are my responses:

1) tell her after the production.
Why? Because she might not like you and it will affect her having to work with you at the same time. OR she might like you, still it will affect her having to work with you! So.. after the production, ok?

2) try to secure a date after the opening night. the point is, u gotta be alone with her. if u can't get a proper date, pull her to a secluded place where u could be alone with her- just for a few seconds or minutes.
tell her how great she did on the opening night
and tell her how you've been enticed by her personality for some time (you have been haven't you?)
tell her that you'd lyk to know her better and if she's ok with it, to go out once in a while. Then, wait for her respond. she'll say something - 100%. then you'll know where you stand from then on.

3) Wait until the opening night is over. but act as soon as possible.
Why? well, that's my personal style.
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Good luck!

Answer 3

1)Tell her after the production-because if it's before and it doesn't go well, it could just make thhe production process more awkward

2) Try to let the relationship grow without telling her anything-so, you might want to go for lunch or something a few times, but make it as lighthearted as possible-you may be able to tell if she's into you too, depending how it goes

3) Wait, yes. But you can still have fun talking to her. Just don't tell her flat out that you're interested in her, is all I'm saying.

(Boy, it makes you wonder if the guy in High School Musical had the same questions.)

Answer 4

AFTER the production get her some flowers to give to here, after the show once like u all are cleaning up and stuff. Write a nice letter/note or something telling her how u feel. And at end of it tell her to meet u some ware at a time and place. Like the audience of the theater or back stage in a room later that night or the next day. And explain this is the place were u realized how u felt about her and would like to explain on it form there!!! Good luck!!!!!

Answer 5

Bro' Camaro:

My Opinion?

1) I would do it AFTER The Performance!

2) Perhaps at the Post Cast Party you can
talk & *tell her it was a pleasure working
with her on the Musical. Casually ask her
if she wants to hang out with you & go
to a movie or to StarBucks sometime.

3) NO! Don't WAIT!
Strike while the IRON Is HOT!
She may tell you she will be bizzy
during the Holidays. Set something
up in Jan/ if she is bizy!

Good Luck Bro'!
(Oops~ I mean~
"Break A Leg" :-)

HAVE FUN!

Answer 6

I think it's a good idea to wait after the production. Then, if you end up feeling awkward, it's less of a risk vs. having to see her through all the performances. When you tell her you like her, don't go too overboard. Just let her know you think she's really nice and you'd like to go out some time so the two of you can spend some time together. Maybe lunch, movie, play, concert, museum . . .

Good luck!

Answer 7

1) after (or the night of ) the production
Emothions will be running high adrenalin will be pumping everyone will be happy and in a great mood... probley the best time to ask
2) Tell her that she proformed great that you think she is sooo talented and that you realy like her and want to hang out more out of school
3) Wait untill she is alone

Answer 8

1)umm well theres 2 ways of looking at the first one. You could either telll her and be shut down or end up dating her. Or you could wait and that might make it possible for someone else to get to ask her on a date before you do.
2) you might want to start off with just going out as buds first for a couple nights and then take it from there
3) well you dont want to do you? I'd vote for going for it

Answer 9

I would go for it! if you dont wanna wait, then dont. you can tell her i a few different ways. if you KNOW she likes you back ask her if she would wanna hang out sometime. but dont like try and set a date or anything, becuz if she acctually wants to go then she will get back to you, or she may just say sure right there. if she says she will think about it, back off for a little longer. you can just tell her when ever, but make it a low-pressure situation, like when your setting up the play, or getting out of practice, juct walk out with her and ask if she wants to hang out sometime. and as for the waiting part, that is your decision completely. i would do it now unless you really can,t then just wait, patientce is key. good luck man!

Answer 10

i would tell her after cuz if she doesnt feel the same you can be spared the greif cuz right now you need to focus on the play

once its over i would tell her that you think shes a great girl and would maybe like to hang out after school sometime, maybe do coffee, dinner or a movie and then go from there

good luck