I like this guy in my english class. We used to sit beside eachother, but now we sit far away (assigned seating)
He still sits close to me though. We used to talk quite a bit. He's in a band, and he asked me to do the artwork for his band's album. And he also said to me "Hey, you should come check us out sometime!" And then I started liking him lol. Anyways, ever since I started liking him, it's gotten harder to talk to him. I get shy, and I don't know what to say. I might even be coming off as a cold person!! =(
He still talks to me sometimes, like he saw my drawings and was like "Sweet." And he also asks me to be in his group when we do group work.
So how should I flirt with him?? I don't know how because I am so shy now, and I don't want him to think that I'm mean (because I don't really talk to him as much anymore...)
Advice please!!!
2007-12-07 13:30:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww! Don't get shy! He is going to wonder what happened! He might think you don't like him anymore! You're sending him those "mixed messages" that we women are infamous for, confusing men! Guys don't read girls too well, especially when they are young....you should just keep talking to him like you were, and be friends. Just take a deep breath, and talk to him. Get to know each other, and hang out...go see his band...if its meant to be, it will all work out.
2007-12-07 13:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off calm down......Second be yourself. Just start conversation and see what kind of things interest him. Maybe ask him about movies, or wherere he has been in life or where he wants to travel to. It's when you get to talking with someone and getting to know them is whe you can start really flirting with them and dropping the hints that your interested. At first though I would just find out what his interests are. Then when you find something that you two have in common you can chat about that when you see each other again. All I can say is be yourself, get to know him and the flirting comes last. Hope this helps!
2007-12-07 21:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pretend that everything is normal. Things always feel different when you realize something, expecially feelings. Be friends first then see where it could go from there because at the moment you are not sure if he likes you or what, but you is showing signs in wanting to get to know you. So to make it feel like nothing, tell yourself that he likes me as a friend. It will calm things down.
2007-12-07 21:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by aquarius7air 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just trying too hard. Why not just be yourself? You don't have to act a certain way, or flirt. Just be friendly, nice and smile a lot, laugh at his jokes, thank him when he admires your art work, talk about school, his band, mutual friends, the weather -- the list of things to talk about is endless. You're not a bug under a microscope, you're a nice girl, and obviously the boy is interested. So just relax, rewind, and enjoy! Good luck!
2007-12-07 21:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle this is for you to pretend that he is just a really good friend. It's the only way that you will be able to act like a normal person around him. At least you will be able to be yourself (which is probably what attracted him to you in the beginning). Whatever you do, don't think of him as a potential boyfriend or you'll defeat your plan! Good luck.
2007-12-07 21:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting my dear is really not an option, and being shy is a normal thing when you like someone, but don't isolate your self from him, sometimes being nice to a person u like is enough for him to like you too, and being your self will help him realize how a good person you are, if ever he comes near you be the one to open the conversation, ask him questions thats interesting for him, and try to ask him questions to benefit you as well such as ; what type of girl do you like and other stuffs, and also try to be sweet to him whenever he is to you!
2007-12-07 21:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by raihym 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of thing you een on TV or computer.boys like sports and music a lot.USE THE 4 W's Why ,when, what ,where,.
you can act like somethings you cain.t do and ask
his advice.
2007-12-07 21:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what your heart tells you. If you like him then flirt with him. Just be yourself and everything will work out. You would only be a "mean" person if you tease him. So just do what you feel like you can do and you will be alright.
2007-12-07 21:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by mangamail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see what you mean, that happens to me alot!! Guys like it when you act like your their best bud. So if you really don't want to be so shy just ask him about life. Dont be so shy he wont be interested.
Plus bond with him. But dont follow him so much. Dont be scared. Just keep smiling and youll be alright . =)
2007-12-07 21:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to know the same answer to cause I need to get to start to talk to the guy that i like and he would not talk to me at all.!!
2007-12-07 21:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋