Why do they have to use girls?? What makes them do that??
2007-12-07 13:18:17 · 13 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They're kind of stuck in a hard position in their life. They want to be fit in with their "cool" player friends so they knock up unsuspecting girls and dump the whole load if they wind up with unwanted babies.
2007-12-07 13:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a combination of hormones, their friends and being in school. School's a big "social killing grounds" if you will. Either you've got it, or you don't. Hormones are really running high because the body is growing so rapidly and the change doesn't come kindly with an instruction manual for any of us about it either. Friends cause pressure on the "social" aspect AND the hormones by the status quo act of "who's the biggest and baddest and best" of all the guys in this group of teenagers. It's the geeks and the nerds who really never get to be like this and usually are the best guys in school. Why? Because they read ALL the books and magazines the other guys won't be caught dead with. And yes, the geeks and nerds read them BECAUSE those books and magazines have really good and informative stuff in them.
2007-12-07 21:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all teenage guys are players. I wasn't a player when I was in high school but yet I was overlooked by alot of females because I wasn't. Alot of females like bad boys. But to answer your second question is I have found through my experience decent guys that started out with good intentions and get hurt real bad by females. Then from that point on they decided to hide behind that hurt by playing and using females. Basically a good guy gone bad.
2007-12-07 21:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Jasmine:
Perhaps I can shed some light
on this question.
I might have a different "take"
on this subject!
It has been said ..... Many times ....
"Good Times" ~
Are "WASTED" On The YOUNG!
Look! As youths we ONLY go thru
this ONCE! Life is NOT a Dress
Rehearsal!
What does one wish ~
we as young dudes, *To Do?
*WAIT UNTIL We Are MARRIED
with 3 kids~ THEN START CHEATING
& sleeping around?
Dudes & Chicks "use" each other!
When BETTER To Do It~
Then When We ARE YOUNG ? !!!!!
Get it OUT! Then be mature later in life!
Does this make sense?
Look!
Most males just wanna GET LAID!
It's a "male-animal" thingy!
Women want to get LAID too~
but they also seek a False Sense of
SECURITY!
The female body is a work of ART!
Young Males can NOT resist it!
Better to play around as a teen~
then later, when life has pasted us by!
This is the TRUTH!
I believe it is an HONEST Answer!
Good Luck~Jasmine!
2007-12-07 21:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by LedHead 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a teenage girl to be asking this question.
The reasons are simple. Hormones are in overdrive and make them want to be with many girls. Peer pressure makes them think they have to be a player to be cool.
Most guys grow out of it, just hang in there!
2007-12-07 21:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're scared little boys who dont know what they want in life or in a girl. So they go from girl to girl thinking thats what will make them happy. Teenagers, both boys and girls are idiots. I should know, i use to be one.
2007-12-07 21:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh. I'm sorry you were used.
but honey it's not just guys that play games. girls can do it too.
i used to be a player. i used it as revenge.
kinda like that john tucker must die, where the other girlfriends used one girl to attack john tuckers love and personal life.
my friends would tell me about guys that they went out with that had played them.
so i used my skills and gave them a taste of their own medicine.
why do guys play??
playing is all about dominance and control. it's about knowing what the other person wants, feels, needs, and what they are susceptible to.
guys usually don't like commitment and like to fool around. they want their cake and eat it too along with the cookies, pies, and cupcakes.
they can't play the game forever. eventually it'll stop because they'll get tired of not having a steady person.
2007-12-07 21:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lili 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they wanna be pimps! lol. But seriously, they just wanna show that they can have as many girls as possible and all they're worried about is getting laid. They'll just go from girl to girl to use her for his pleasure.
2007-12-07 21:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by »cottoncandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a look at yourself and your generation and that is answer enough why they treat you that way
2007-12-07 21:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause they are wierd and they dont know what they want yet.
2007-12-07 21:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by Soccer chick1224 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋