Best reason to move out of Home when living with cousin's Family and rent a Apartment?

Question

Well....I am 26 and work with my cousin in our Uncle's company and 2 yrs ago,we were asked to live together and we both got agreed and bought an apartment and since then living together.Now I feel that i cant take decisions of my own and as he has family and a kid ,so get the disturbance always,can't go anywhere ,can't study because he is very sticky kind of guy who always love to tease others,never let me sit alone in my room,always want to keep me occupied in his work
Now i have decided to Move out but one problem i am looking that until we sell the apartment ,I cant move out and he would not be easily agree to sell the apartment.

Please suggest a best reason that i would move out and relation will still be there.

Thanks

That is actual my friend's story

Answer 1

The apartment seems rather small if a family plus an extra adult is living there. A good reason would be...
Well, let's see. You live with another family, of your family, and you cousins. So technically speaking this means you shouldn't be there. You need to break away. In order to grow in self-esteem and self-confidence and dignity/pride. You need to break away from an intermediate family because they need to grow indiviually. People can stay together only a small amount of time. If possible, a larger space for children is best rather than an apartment-try a condo.

However, the way t split the equity from the aparment sell may need to be discussed. I'd try to fo 75:50...which means the family gets 75% because they are bigger and cost more than a single man.

Answer 2

No, you can't live with relatives like that.
Great when you are just starting out, but not once they start replicating. You need your own bachelor pad.
Time to get out of there.
That is your excuse.

At two years you don't really have much of any equity.
Ask for your share of the up-front money and sign off as having sold your share in that place to them. You will need to talk to the mortgage/title company for this. You can get the contract for sale of your share worded in such a way that you can get your share in installments if need-be.... the mortgage company can even handle the disbursement (for a fee).
At any rate, you need to be off that ownership paperwork just in case your cousing defaults.