OK HERES THE STORY- i know i posted this on my other username but i have another question to ask now...the other night i went to my friend's birthday party.she and everyone else there including this guy go to a different school than me.the guy there said he wouldn't mind making a move on me then later he put his hand on my leg.then he added my myspace and wanted to talk to me on aim. so he IMed me and we were talkign and he was acting really strange and he said tell me about yourself. what makes you you? etc. and i told him im really confused what do you want me to tell u? and later asked me for my photobucket password and login info..and i said no why do you want that? and hes like well you can tell alot about someone by their pictures. i said no.
2007-12-07 12:53:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
and then i later asked him if he liked me and he said he doesn't know me well enough or something and later he said this 'well i keep my eyes open to girls everywhere.so in truth i like alot of them' so i said 'ok that's cool.' and he said 'if you need to go you can now'... what he said REALLY REALLY OFFENDED ME...i can't remember the last time i was so angry at someone. he totally acted like he liked me then pretty much blew me off and said no i like alot of girls w/e pretty much i interpreted it as i just wanted in your pants. this was my first encounter with a guy i thought liked me in a while...and then he told me i could sign off then if i wanted to. what an A**.....
im 16. and hes 16 too or 17 idk. the other night was the first time i met him
alot of people answered my other question and told me to watch out for him hes a creeper
my question is i deleted him off my myspace AND WHAT DO I DO WHEN HE ASKS ME WHY!!? IM SCARED OF HIM NOW..HES CREEPY!
2007-12-07 12:53:45 · update #1
This guy does sound weird. Dont give him any information on you at all. I hear twilight zone music. I hope he doesn't know where you live. You should have told him off when he put his hand on your leg for the first time. He seems to sound pretty sure of himself by saying, I wouldn't mind making a move on you. As if you were going to just stand there and let him do it. You should have put him in his place when he told you that. I think that maybe your reaction to that may have gave him the go ahead to pursue you further. Or he may be the kind of guy how will keep going until you have to bluntly say stop. Does he have a girlfriend now? He may be single for a reason. Like you said. He may be a freak.
He needs to know that he miss judged you and that you are not interested at all. In other words you ain't that easy. And that he is not in any way your type. It looks like he is looking for someone that will cling to him when he abuses them or insults them. I mean if he insults you and you come back for more, He may be testing you to see if you are that type. Are you? End it now!
2007-12-07 13:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by guitarrman45 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, in a very firm voice, with lots of people around you - "I deleted you because you're creepy and you scare me. I don't want to have anything to do with you and if you continue to bother me, I'm going to have you arrested for stalking. "
If you are not so direct, like me. try "Look, you've really kind of spooked me and I am not interested in getting to know you right now. You're making me uncomfortable. Please don't talk to me any more." If he continues, see above.
Here is one of the secrets girls you're age apparently aren't being taught any more. You body and person are your property and you don't have to do anything with it that you don't want to , This includes your psyche and you don't have to talk to people you don't want to, kiss, have relations with or touch peole you don't want. Remember all that Stranger danger and Good touchbad touch stuff? It applies more now. If you knew an 8 year old having a similar problem to yours, what advice would you give her? FOllow that - tell your parents, teachers or councillor - someone older that you trust. Don't be alone with the guy.
And one other thing, while we are on the subject - something else girl's don't know now. Just because a guys feigns interest, kisses or makes love to you, doesn't mean he loves you. In fact, it probably means he respects you less. Don't pay for your love or social status with your body. Do it with the fact that you are beautiful, intelligent and deserving and any guy who actually rates high enough to be with you is LUCKY. Don't let anyone intimidate or black mail you into anythign you don't want to do, ok. Stand up for yourself and do what you need to be safe and happy. Have a male friend walk you around, call the cops if necessary - it's their job and they don't mind - that's why they have non-emergency numbers.
2007-12-07 13:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't there when this all happened, but I'm chuckling a little. This guy might have seemed creepy to you. I think he's just messing with you. I know he really offended you saying he's interested in lots of girls, but how many guys do you know who aren't? He sounds like someone trying too hard to be nonchalant. He's trying out his "mysterious" and "world weary" side.
If he asks why you deleted him, tell him you're not like him. You don't "like a lot of guys." You only like a few...and he's not one of them.
Don't be scared of him. He'll probably be really embarassed and totally avoid you after this.
2007-12-07 13:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by Love My Hubby - Hate His Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could just say .. that you were cleaning up your friends list and all of a sudden, it deleted a whole page of people (the page where he's on) and had to add people back but never remembered his myspace, so didn't get a chance to. then never talk to him again! lol, seriously. it works for me =)
2007-12-07 12:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by sh480150 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there any reason to believe you will meet this guy face:face again? If not, just cease contact with him. Ignore his text, im, whatever. Just cease communication. If you meet him, just say I want to be more than just one of the girls - I deserve better.
2007-12-07 12:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore and avoid him. Do not answer him. He will eventually go away and bug someone else.
You should trust your intuition. This guy sounds like bad news who will only bring drama- you don't need it!
2007-12-07 13:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by SHSHSH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him. If he confronts you about deleting him, just tell him their your FRIENDS. He's just a dude you met, not your friend. Tell him he must be on PLENTY of other girl's friends lists, so it's no big deal!
2007-12-07 13:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kalamazoo Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you r teachers at school, report him to the principles office, tell your parents, and tell him to leave you alone.
2007-12-07 13:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you would really rather that he just "sign off"!
2007-12-07 13:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by Regina J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deleted him off ur myspace
and try to stay away from him... he is creepy and scary!!
When he try to talk to you
IGNORED HIM
2007-12-07 13:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by ███Htown Chino███Go Rockets!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋