a dancer? hot? a good person? gets around? don't you dare tell me it's all about personal chemistry.
2007-12-07 12:49:41 · 6 answers · asked by Deese 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lol Ive dated a guy who was very good looking very hot and a great dancer on top of many many other great qualities ( just to add we did have a lot of chemistry) and the sex was Ok I guess. Im not even sure how to explain it. But that was the only guy I had sex with so I cant actually answer any further. :(
2007-12-07 12:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who dance might have a better sense of rhythm and are in tune with their bodies, so that might work.... Being hot, or good, or easy, doesn't guarantee anything. I think one big factor that indicates a good lover is the "FUN" factor. Sounds silly but I believe it - the more fun a person is, the more they are willing to play around and try stuff and have a sense of humor about nakedness and sex, the more into it they are, the more open they are, and the more they will be into feeling good and making you feel good. They don't need to be a stand-up comedian, but they need to not have a lot of hang-ups and instead enjoy trying new stuff and relaxing and letting go. Also, I think the guys who are better in bed tend to have more testosterone - they're lean, strong, do manly-man stuff, and LOVE women. They are obsessed with getting laid and think about different ways to please a woman. I would never trust an overweight guy - too much estrogen in body fat and if they're overweight they're less likely to be thinking about making themselves desirable to the opposite sex - that's an indication they're not that motivated to please a girl.
2007-12-07 13:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by Laeticia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, such a funny question.... to tell the truth you cant tell who would be better in bed by any way possible. You can pick out traits that kind of hint how they are and how they mite be in bed, but trial and error are the only way, besides do you think you are good in bed. i bet half will say yes and half will say no. It is just in how and what the person likes....
Dont get stuck on it besides if you find one you like and they are bad in bed help them.... I just see why people get stuck on tryen to find who is best in the sack, besides if they are good it just means they have been around the block and probable have or had some thing... Becare full thats all i am saying....
2007-12-07 12:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by sbd_spider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experience
2007-12-07 12:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't really know because it could be the most good looking hunk in the world and he could be a dud. SO best way to see is to go to bed with them or just go thru foreplay if they don't get your motor going it means they aren't good in bed.
2007-12-07 12:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to truly know is either someone telling you that they are good or seeing for yourself 1st hand.
2007-12-07 12:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by M76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋