How many of you are in a long distant relationship?

Question

You and your love live in two different states, long distant apart. How do you make it work? or did it end ?

Answer 1

Dear hotbutter:

Yuppers .......
been there ......
done that!

I'm on the "Left" Coast~
she was in NY!

hotbutter! You want HONESTY?

It takes Tremendous FOCUS~
Strength, Security, Patience & Maturity
to make it "work"! One finds out QUICK~
how much "Emotional-Intelligence"
one possess's!

I do NOT "Regret" it!
BUT .........
Long-Distance Relat' sure takes a "Toll"
on one's Psyche! It can be REALLY~
FRUSTRATING!

My Psychic Reservoir went DRY!
It SUCKED Away ALOT of my ENERGY!

To Clarify? We had POSITIVITY!
WE BOTH always Enjoy each others
Company! We are BOTH Mature
Adults with Successful Careers!
Arguments or questions of commitment
are NOT an ISSUE! Sex GREAT!
NO high Drama Issues! JUST
*Distance ............
& boy what a B*itch THAT IS!
(It REALLY Weighs HEAVY on a Soul)

Bottom Line?
We had to STOP the Coastal Relat'!
It was just TOO Over-Whelming!
Yet~ I think it MAGICALLY made me
a "better" person!

If YOU can make it work?
Go for IT hotbutter!
Try it out!
I had FUN! BUT! It was a Challenge
to keep my Life & Everything all Together!

(For the reasons above!)

Good Luck~ hotbutter!
Does this assist you~
or make sense to you?

Answer 2

my sister is in one and has been for 3 years now. they met online (i know what you are thinking but dont judge her). long distance relationships are a lot of work to keep alive but they do teach you alot about how important trust and communication is between the two partners. it also teaches you the importance of the time you two spend together. long distance relationships are very deep. the two of you end up talking about alot more and learn alot more about each other.

my sister has been in a long distance relationship for about 3 years now. she lives in ontario (canada) and he lives in new hampshire (states). they have the strongest relationship i have ever seen. they talk all day long all the time (she hogs the phone too much lol =D i had to add some humor). they visit each other as often as possible. either he comes up and stays with us or she goes down and stays with his family and him. the spend all summer together, christmas time, march break and any other holidays that are throughout the year.

long distance relations are a very good experience for everyone to go through. it opens your eyes to what you really need to keep a relationship alive and healthy.

i hope my advice helps =D if you need any more answers please email or im me anytime at [e-mail]

Answer 3

When I was 14 and 15 I was in a serious long distance relationship. We saw each other every school holidays and talked all the time. We were so in love. It ended because it was too hard and I was a skank. Lol.

Answer 4

im in one...but im only gonna be gone for like 6-7 more months...ive been gone for 3 now. ill be visiting home too.. so that will help out.. but i just call when i can and email...it helps but sometimes there r fights...it depends on how much love is between the two of u....if its not much then it probably wont work out...but u never know....

Answer 5

yes we are --- it is not different states it is half a world away --- you make it work by only thinking of them being honest and faithful and it has not ended ---- at some point you must meet and decide what you are going to do --- break up or stay together forever ---- then you decide where you will be living --- best wishes

Answer 6

i'm in a protracted distant dating now. We communicate well-known. yet to be trustworthy, i'm shifting closer to my Love next month. i do no longer understand how long we could have made it long distance. it somewhat is amazingly puzzling. I recommend which you communicate with your companion approximately getting mutually sooner or later. You dating would proceed to exist it understanding which you would be mutually in the long-term.

Answer 7

I'm newly in one not by his choice or mine. I lost my contract where I was working. During the contract I fell in love with someone. I'm currently trying to get a contract where he is....I miss him so so much! I pray to God I get a job next week so I can see him before the new year.

Answer 8

I had plenty long distance relationships once i lived in neworleans in he lived in ohio I'm sorry but it really didn't work for me I wasn't being faithful but it could work for you if you stick with him or her if you really like that person

Answer 9

me,i'm in one:(
he's in texas.i'm on the east coast.i actually moved to europe for awhile but then i came back here and we've been in separate places for a year now and each day it still hurts as if i left yesterday.to make it more complicated....well never mind,but yeah,i think he and i are gonna make it:)

Answer 10

well not ttly long distance, but my boyfriend n i went to diff skewls n we tlked on the fone , went on dates n stuff, but eventually, for both of us, we grew tired of that n we both found someone else so yeaas i guess email n fone calls n visits would heal that but for me it didnt work out...
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