so were both 19 @ different colleges, but we've been together for 4 ish years.. he has ocd adhd and depression, & his doc. put him on depression meds about a year ago.. after that he literally changed so much, was constantly bouncing off the walls, broke up w/ me and just seriously went insanely hyperactive..so idk i think he may be bipolar but that's a whole nother story in itself..anyways we did not talk for 10 months until before we both went 2 school (4 months ago) & i didnt want to get back w/ him but it sort of just happened and b4 i knew it we were a couple again..2 weeks ago he just avoided me & stopped talking to me and then 5 days ago he ended it..he told me he loves me, and then texted me yesterday 7 hours after i txted him saying hi, telling me that " i miss you haha" idk how thats funny but w/e & that "he's fine but everything reminds him of me"..but then he'll just stop talking to me..whats going on w/ him, i dont think hes on his meds, but like does he regret ending it?
2007-12-07 12:26:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I can sympathize with both of you.
He may be going through a lot with himself, and maybe he feels like he can't give you the emotional availability your relationship deserves. Give him time, but don't expect anything either. Be supportive if you have the ability to rise above - he might be responsive eventually.
At the same time, being with you while going through these issues, and if he's getting over them, there is a chance he may be trying to remove himself from everything that reminds him of the way he used to be. Wrong place, wrong time for you. Just don't blame yourself.
2007-12-07 12:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by jenneth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to the RN.... those who are other there like myself for one.... we go bouncing off the walls, and all sorts of crap because of mental illness.... dont say that he is a lunetic and not worth it....
I am sure there are so many good qualities about him that is why this person wrote about him. That she does care.... and she has every right....
anyway back to our the questioner..... you have every right to love soemoen who has a mental illness or more than one.... Will he come back, I dnt know. I don't know if he regrets it... but for that part, just know that he did care some and he must have some serious issues going on in his life....
there are things that happened in my life that I terribly regret...
right now I am off my meds because the doctor is switching me to somehting else.... and yea it is really hell-a-ous right now
2007-12-07 12:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by Artist Wanna Be 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm an older woman and that i visit permit you realize a injury up hurts whatever, and often you're actually not waiting to be pals because of the fact of the entire reasons you have gotten pronounced and in precise, thinking they initiate relationship different women folk and it hurts too much. i comprehend how risky you have self belief because of the fact I dated somebody for a pair of years at present and that i broke it off with him. It harm quite lots. i attempted to speak to him yet he improve into so disillusioned he would not return my calls. So there's no longer something you may desire to do. you may no longer make a guy love you or must be in a relationship. i would not wait around for him to selection his strategies because of the fact he won't. existence is merely too short. Get obtainable and journey it! that does no longer mean looking one extra boyfriend -- merely get worried in concerns and look after your self busy. i might no longer be at his beck and touch in words of texting or assembly the two. finally, if he can not make you a priority in his existence then you definitely do no longer make him one in yours.
2016-10-01 02:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. Let him be. He has a lot of stuff to sort out.
You sort yourself out and get a life. You cant put up with this forever, you may as well break free now. You dont need to receive that sort of treatment, regardless of the issues he's got.
2007-12-07 12:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by emo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs u more than ever although it might not seem like it. he needs u to be his friend who cares for him. Hes a little confused right now thats all and depression isnt that easy. He probably feels like crap and lonely and although he had you, he still has something missing and he doesnt know what it is. be careful that he doesnt try suicide, he needs to realize that life is beautiful and that he has a purpose.
2007-12-07 12:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it "like matter"? This guy is a raving lunatic, can't you see that? At your age, you don't need him in your life. Forget him, get on with your life and find someone normal.
2007-12-07 12:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋