Are you for or against premarital sex?

Question

I am against it (for me)

but I am not going to hate someone because they have sex before marriage....

I learned you have a horomone and it releases for a female when she has sexual intercourse, gives birth, and breast feeds. Guy give it off during sexual intercourse.

This bonding hormone loses its power with every release (like a piece of tape that is being removed over and over again...it loses its stickiness)

So when I get married I want there to be a strong bond.


What do you think?

Answer 1

Liz, I totally agree 100% percent with you and GOD BLESS you for being such an awesome person! Everyone thinks its bad to "be a virgin " but if you truely have the patience to wait for the right guy/ girl then it will be SO worth it.. You should feel wonderful you are waiting..( if you are ) lol God bless!


Mr Smith~

Answer 2

i myself have not talked about by way of with the no premarital sex coverage, even if I do strongly accept as true with it each and every so often. imagine about it. merely because someone is particular now does not advise they are going to be particular later. Do you've an similar accurate team of acquaintances that you probably did 5 years in the past? perchance even 5 months in the past? No, and in case you do that's a very uncommon social gathering. fairly, maximum highschool or youthful human being relationships do not very last. even if great you are able to imagine your "love" is, it isn't. you're nonetheless turning out to be up, and merely because a decision seems solid now, it would want to not look so solid looking back on it 5, 10, or 2 many years from now.

Answer 3

who's feeding you this BS?
but however I don't want to marry a girl who has had zero sex! I mean there is no benefit to being a virgin before marriage other than a bunch or religious mumbo jumbo.
In this day and age bad sex can ruin a marriage now if you both have nothing to compare it to then your good but then statistics show the chances of cheating are better because you wonder what else is out there.....This is almost 2008 Doll get with the times. don't do it if you don't want to but remember your really leaving yourself with fewer options as less people are going into marriage as virgins....how do you look at sex while married in a second marriage? Same deal except the dude isn't paying alimony.

Answer 4

I 've never heard of a bonding hormone like sticky tape before. However there are other reasons why it's a good idea to abstain from sex before marriage, including prevention of unwanted pregnancy, prevention of std's, protecting your heart from getting broken, and when you're thinking of marriage, you naturally become more choosey about who you get close to. I like the word abstaining because it doesn't imply it's too late even if someone already had sex with 100 people, becasue people can change thier views.

Answer 5

In my opinion I am Strongly against Premarital sex. Just like you I don't hate people if they do but I know for a fact from other friends experiences that when you have sex before marriage you kind of put a curse on your relationship. It just screws up the chemistry. It just brings more fighting and its just so much more special when you wait until marriage. You guys will have a much stronger relationship! :)

Answer 6

I think waiting for marriage is a good idea, but that theory about the hormones and tape is a little wacky.

Answer 7

from one Liz to another

i strongly believe sex is for marriage..i dont want my husband 2 compare me to the other 340 women he's been with, and he prlly wants the same thing..
with sex comes emotional isssues etc..u dont want 2 b caught up in all of that
then theres the unwanted pregnancies,std's etc
in brief, sex is for marriage, to be enjoyed by 2 people that are married

Answer 8

I never heard of this hormone you're speaking of, but I'm for premarital sex. If two people find that they are sexually incompatible, it leaves room for one or both parties to be unfulfilled in the union and that leads to temptation. Being sexually frustrated can cause infidelity and that leads to heart break.

Answer 9

I think you should save it until marriage. I do, however, not condemn those that have sex after high school, such as fiances or college couples. They're not being super responsible, but at least they waited to be legal.

Answer 10

It doesn't matter to me really, if it happens before then ok. I've never had sex before, but I'm not worried about it happening before a wedding, I guess is better to get to know how your man performs before you agree to stay with him forever.