There's this guy I'm having sex with. Is it possible to turn into something more?
I've never had a sex buddy. It's not usually my style. I met him at my former college, we hooked up. have been talking ever since.
I made an excuse to visit again but didnt want to seem like it was all about him-- so i went out with my girls. he called to see what i was up to. ended up leaving his friends to come find me. we hung out, danced, had an awesome time
i went back to his place again and well, u know.it was AMAZING. we stayed up, talked and snuggled til 4 am. its weird i'm so comfortable with him, we have amazing chemistry. my friends all say hes a really nice guy.
he said he wished i lived there, that he would love it if we could hang out more. i joked about being just a booty call and he said, "if thats all you were, why would i go out of my way to call all the time just to talk and love every second of it."
i can see myself liking him...is this bad news? should i stay unnattached?
2007-12-07 10:08:02 · 10 answers · asked by autumn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a situation like that hardly works out. try to stay unattached its probably for the best so that you don't get hurt.
2007-12-07 10:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful♥Disaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not bad news. This can be good. Well you can only talk to him about this. He seems like he really likes you. If you like him ask him what he would think of if you two were in a relationship? You have to find out what he wants, and does he really like you. If he wants a relationship with you, then go for it. Tell him how you feel. He seems like he is falling for you, but he might not be so sure if you have fallen for him? thats a question for you to answer.
2007-12-07 18:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it feels right then give it a try. You don't want to wonder "what if" for the rest of your life. If it turns out that it's just not right later then move on.
2007-12-07 18:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by kirk1500 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally think that u should be with him. Come on its only natural. but be careful he might be cheating ur feelings, sometimes it might be just an act
2007-12-07 18:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful of you'll end up a friends w/benefits.
2007-12-07 18:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point it doesn't sound like it's just sex but I'd still tell him my concerns.
2007-12-07 18:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like it can work.If you like him,give yourself a chance?What can you lose anyway?
2007-12-07 18:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try making it something more .. you two seem to have a good thing going on .. you know , it wouldnt hurt
2007-12-07 18:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by CoachAutumn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww u guys belong together
2007-12-07 18:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is telling the truth and he is sincere.
give it a go.
2007-12-07 18:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋