First off, I had joined yahoo personals to keep on the look out for a guy. I looked at hundreds of different profiles and was about to give up, when i saw one that caught my eye. i sent him an ice breaker saying: nice pic, can you add more? I didn't think anything would come out of it, but to my surprise, he responded and gave me his im name and said i could add him to my list if i wanted. this was almost two weeks ago. since then we have been getting kind of close. sharing life experiences, our childhoods, our hopes and dreams for the future. he is very kind and polite and has been a great stress reliever. the catch is, he is twelve years older then me. wait, don't answer yet. I know stalkers do this all the time, which is why i won't give personal info out right now. but i don't want to treat him like a stalker. if i did, a great relationship which might have been would be lost forever....what should i do?
2007-12-07 10:07:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on how old you are --- if you are 20 plus (its arbitrary i know just a rule of thumb) then 12 years is not that much of an age difference and if you feel comfortable with this then keep it going and see what happens --- if under 20 then you need to be very careful and while i wont say get out i will keep saying be careful --- i am older my lady is a lot younger than me but very level headed and mature ---- so we dont see the age difference just two people that care for each other ----- we cant tell you what to do really just follow your instincts and trust your judgement --- make sure he also knows how old you are ---- best wishes
2007-12-07 10:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question.....How old are you? If teeny-bopper thats
hell of a diffirence. I would proceed with caushon, If wants
to face to face,public place take a friend
Good Luck !
2007-12-07 10:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by klatuu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋