im 17 my bf is 14 and he want me to have sex w/ him what should i do?

Question

today when i was walkig w/ him to shool he told me that he wanna have sex w/ me and i don't really know what should i do

Answer 1

Have a talk with him and tell him about the birds and bees. But -- NO SEX.

Answer 2

Why are you going out with someone 3 years younger than you anyway? The maturity leval between a 14 year old BOY and a 17 year old GIRL is phonominal!
However, if you're going out with him despite the age diference, then he must be special. He may be ready, or he may just want to show of to his mates about it. I think you should wait until you are definatly both ready and decide when he has shown that he is faithful to you. It's up to you whether you decide to let it happen in a moment of passion or plan it; but either way, make sure you know that this is what you want to do.

Answer 3

Girl, are you stupid? You are on the wrong side of the statutory rape equation. You can be criminally prosecuted for statutory rape. He is under the age of consent.

Next, You are about to engage into very risky behavior. Making love is an adult behavior with very adult consequences. Accidents do happen, and you both are inexperienced, so accidents are very possible. Do you want to give up your dreams to raise a child? Do you want to deal with contracting an STD? Can you handle being used for sex? Making love is more than the physical act. It is a bonding of two souls to produce a new soul. You should save making love until you are in a committed relationship. BTW: marriage is a committed relationship. God bless

Answer 4

I wouldn't do it. At 14 he is to young to handle the responsibilities that can come with sex. What if you were to get pregnant? Do you think at 14 he is old enough to be a father?

Answer 5

don't do it you'll get into alot of trouble with the police and your name will be all over the news and newspaper and you may get sent to jail by doing this by the way why are you dating an under age boy? do you want to get talked about and sent to the office then the the court then to jail ? girl do you know how bad that would be? no way dump him and tell him to do that with a girl his age

Answer 6

Don't have sex with him. 14 year olds are extremely immature. You know that you guys will not be together for all eternity. You should not just sleep with people. 14 year olds are old enough to get horny, but they are really not ready for sex. DON'T DO IT!

Answer 7

DON'T do it.
Even though you are a female, your sex partner has to be exactly 16 and 1 day old before you can. If he isn't, it is considered RAPE.
If he even ended up telling someone if you ever broke up, you would be arrested.
And please, save the time for when your sure your ready.

Answer 8

Listen I'm no one to tell you what to do - but if you want to know what I'm thinking- well here goes.
He's a baby- what are you think about?? he just wants to have the experience, do you really think this is love-???? NO its not. This is new to him and he wants to experiment- and you are the bunny ,so wake up.
Remember this- when sleeping with baby you'll always wake up wet. ;-)

Answer 9

What you need to ask yourself is do you want to have sex with him and are you ready to take that step with him. And ask yourself also are you ready for sex. I'm also 17 so if you need to talk to me you can.

Answer 10

DONT DO IT. ok it might be fine with him but your the one who might end up with a baby. how would you like that? a 17 year old with a 14 year old expecting a baby. dont do it.