Ok. Well i have a great bf! & i care about him alot. But my best friend is a guy. I mean i can tell him anything && know he will not judge me. He also has a good girlfriend who he cares for alot too. But...he has been telling me about these dreams he's been having; about us having sex. && he tells me that i am the only person he can imagine doing it with. && he wants it bad. I have already done stuff with him. && actually i want to do more. I feel really bad. What does this mean.....
2007-12-07 08:56:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, judging by the paragraph you just wrote, a very small percentage pertains to your boyfriend. The rest pertains to this other guy, who you admit to wanting to mess around with. What does this tell us? Heres a little interpretation: we want things we can't have. You don't have this other guy, so you can't be with him or mess around with him. Already, you want to mess around with him, so this not being able to have him would make you want him more.
But what if you do leave your boyfriend and mess around with your guy friend? What happens then? Consider the long-term as well.
2007-12-07 09:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's telling you about his dreams because his gf won't give it up to him. If he was gettin' sum, he wouldn't think about you (as much).
If his gf won't do him, then you shouldn't either. I never go to a new restaurant unless a friend of mine goes there first and recommends it. It's the same concept.
FYI - If you want to "do stuff" with your friend, then you don't care that much about your bf. Good luck, and don't forget to take your pill every day.
2007-12-07 17:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Clarence Oddbody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your boyfriend and hook up with your best friend if that is what the two of you desire. Life is short, have fun.
2007-12-07 17:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C in AZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb both of u should leave ur partners and get together but dont do this cheating thing its f***kd up if u do...u both seem to be more into each other than ur partners
2007-12-07 17:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Ginger86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can,t have them both, if your boyfriend finds out
he will be your ex-boyfriend.
be loyal to your boyfriend and hope he does not find
out about what you just said.
2007-12-07 17:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh this means u too need to stop playing games with yourselves and other two parties involved and be together if he is ur bestfriend and possible lover u should get married good luck
2007-12-07 17:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Nick20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋