have you ever been in love and then they broke your heart?

Question

i have, share your story?

Answer 1

Yes, I have. Loved too dearly and trusted blindly. A fatal combination.

Answer 2

When I was younger, in high school, I was in love with this girl for three years. We dated from my sophomore year to my senior year. Then, one week before thanksgiving, she broke up with me. See, she was actually a year older than I was, so while I was still a senior in high school, she was a freshman in college... So, as you can probably imagine, it didn't work out so well.

Here's the thing, there was a lot going on right at that time. My grandpa passed away, and a good friend of mine was killed in an automobile accident the week before she broke up with me. I was pretty depressed, and she kind of used my misery as an excuse to break up with me... Thinking back on it now, it wasn't right.

Anyhow, I was pretty bent out of shape for some time over the whole thing. When she broke up with me it was the straw that broke the camel's back, if you know what I mean. Well, I am all better now... almost ten years later. Happily married, and living life. People back then told me I wouldn't be miserable forever, and though it was hard to believe, life did get better. Like that beatles song...

Have a good holiday. It get's better, trust me.

Answer 3

I feel in love with a guy, while I was married, left my husband for him, we lived together for 5 half loveable years together, through the years, he became addicted to stealing, H.B & T.
He broke my heart, cause he was often in jail, and I couldn't stand by him no more, as I was getting arrested with him at times.
Though I have a broken heart, as I loved him dearly, still do, it was the best to do.
leopard never changes his spots.

Answer 4

Yeah going through that right now. He said I wasn't "skinny" enough (Mind you that I am 5'10' and two sizes below the national average), also I reminded him of his mother and I was too conservative. He used to be sooo good to me and we got along for a year, then he changed overnight. He is now sleeping with girls that could put him in jail if they were a year younger even though he is 24.
The horrible thing is I hear about him all the time because all my friends are his friends or dating his friends. I have been devastated and I can't get out of this funk. I want to be happy so bad.

Answer 5

Absolutely not, I would never let that happen. I had a very strong and smart mother that taught me better. However, when I was very young, (and THOUGHT I was in love) I got dumped and was DISAPPOINTED, but no......my heart is MINE and mine alone (with the exception of my children. My kids would be capable of breaking my heart!)

Answer 6

I was living with this girl and she woke up one day and got all primped up, with makeup, perfume a nice outfit etc... She told me that she was going shopping and it just didn't seem right that she got so dolled up (very out of the ordinary) to go shopping. It was so weird that I followed her and she went to meet this guy she worked with, I followed them in the car and pulled up next to them and honked my horn. You should have seen their faces when they saw it was me. I went home and packed all her S*** in garbage bags put it on the front porch and changed the locks. Her nickname now is "The scathing B*** from hell". I'm really glad I kicked her to the curb the first time it happened and never let her back in my life. It never worked out between them and she lost me. Too bad Sooo sad.

Answer 7

i was 16 he was 18. he left for the navy that summer. we were in love like you couldn't possible believe. our dates were spectacular and he always put me first. he took the time to notice the little things i liked and would tell me about them later. while he was away, we wrote to eachother. i wrote him daily and he wrote me weekly, we talked about everything-shared every secret about our lives. when he came home for the first time around thanksgiving, he surprised me at my doorstep and took me to disneyland. after a few days i didn't get a call from him and found out that he had left. he left without saying goodbye and ignored my calls for a few more days. then i got a phone call saying that he was sorry and that he could no longer be in this relationship. i burst into tears and broke down. i found out later from one of his friends that he had been cheating on me and found out that he got one of his other girls pregnant. when i confronted him, he confessed and was sobbing and pleaded for me to forgive him. i did because i didn't care. my heart was broken and his was too.
we've both moved on but have remained in contact. we're both married to other people now.

Answer 8

I was in love her family shipped her off to Hawaii and I never saw her again I though we would get married when I graduate law school. I am still single life sucks and I hope this was enough, unfortunately I have more.

Answer 9

Spent three years with Dori. Met her at college. I took a semester off while she stayed in school. We even changed schools together.

She died in a plane accident with her brother (private pilate). Her parents had no other children. I felt worse for her parent's than I felt for myself. They loved their children more than any parent could. They did all they could for them, put them in the best schools, etc.

I was back home in California when her brother picked her up in Atlanta to fly them in his plane back to Ohio. When I heard the news I was crushed. She wanted to come to Cali with me, but I knew she loved her family and had been away a long time. I thought it would be best.

I was wrong.
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Answer 10

Yes. A couple of times, but I certainly wouldn't change a thing.
We learn to appreciate things, if you have hard times.
I dated a man 8 years younger for 4 years, it was exciting, but it didn't last. I still speak to him on occasion. I think how you deal with a break-up says alot about a person.

Answer 11

OH Yes....I was in love with these guy since my freshman year in HS. We went out for a few months but then broke up with me cuz I was FAT and his freinds made fun of me...after HS we still "hooked up" at the end we were to start a relationship ...but his ex GF got prego so he HAD TO MARRY her (or her dad was going to take the baby away) so he married her....and he is sooooooo unhappy ....I would still take him back in a matter of minutes..but my heart is broken and will always be.....because we were to be happy and that chance got taken away! =(