we have been good friends, and i took her out on many fun dates. we like each other, and she asked me to be her boy friend. i got my first lip kiss from her. im a little nervous about having a gf considering its my first time. but i know i like her. except..i dont know how to kiss. when do i tounge it? what to do?
im 16...yeah a little slow on the kissing thing...but i was just waiting for the right girl ;)
2007-12-07 08:39:36 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Congrats on getting your 1st GF. Just be yourself and act natural, kiss the way you're doing in now cuz if you were doing it wrong, she's say something. Don't worry about the tongue for now. When you're both comfortable, that will come naturally.
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2007-12-07 08:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Šωèé†íé♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
16 is not too slow, But it all good, don't be worried about anything, It will all work out fine. And Btw you will just know when it tounge time or you can creep it in a little more and more each time. If she asked you too be her boyfriend just keep how you were asking before and it will be all good. Im 17 and have had one girlfriend for nearly 3 years now.
Good luck to you. !
2007-12-07 08:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Monkeybars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant expain how to kiss....b/c its somethig that you have to learn on your own. Everyone usually sucks at their a couple of a first kisses.I didnt get my first make out kiss till i was 16 also.
Dont tounge kiss until you & your g/f is totally ready. When this happens usually everything starts getting "hot & heavy" and yall are making out alot. Then if she opens her mouth enough to let your tongue go through (you have to put your tongue against her teeth to let her know that you wanna tounge her) then if she lets you just put your tounge in her mouth all the way and do a circle like motion in her mouth and play w/ her tounge.
Good luck man.
2007-12-07 08:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good for you be proud and dont worry if a girl puckers for a kiss no tounge but if she comes at you with her lips a little loose and maybe even a little open go in the same way and as soon as her mouth opens stick your tounge in, dont only stick it in and take it out though move it around for about a second or two while your in there but then put it back in your mouth and let her do her thing.
2007-12-07 08:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by beach kid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awe you sound so cute. I love guys like you. That are clean and have so much respect for themselves. Just be honest with her. It'll make her feel special that shes your first kiss. This makes the situation special. Tell her your nervous because you don't want to be bad. She'll most likely say somthing like "let me teach you". Since shes your gf you can rehearse kissing as much as you want. Eventually you'll get the hang of it. To just kiss her lips is pretty simple, but the hole toungue thing comes naturaly. When your kissing she'll know your inexperianced and she'll prob make the first move. Just follow the rhythm of her toungue. Don't push your toungue in to deep and don't open your mouth to wide. Just make it soft your first time and rotate your toungue in slow circular motions.. somtimes switch up the rhymth and the direction, but keep close to her toungue.
Hope i helped!
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2007-12-07 08:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. Just let it come naturally. I was terrified when boys first started becoming interested in me and I think I tried too hard and scared some of them off. Take it slow. Believe me, the girl will respect you more. It's better if you both learn together. Don't rush HER if you start to feel more comfortable. Hold hands, put your arm around her at the movies, compliment her, hold the door open for her, etc. But, don't rush all the other stuff.
2007-12-07 08:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by MiMi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it casanova kissing is a natural thing just dont be overbearing with oh yeah be sure to give a little nibble on her upper and bottom lip
2007-12-07 08:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by Nick20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice! Communication is key. Don't just assume things, and dont be afraid to ask "like this? how should I do it?"
She's your girlfriend so you should be able to talk to her about it :)
"yeah a little slow on the kissing thing...but i was just waiting for the right girl"
tell her what you just told us. good luck to you
2007-12-07 08:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by NAQ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the toungue thing? wait a lil for that. it's a lil awkward when you do that the first time. just a peck on the lips seems good to me.
congrats on finding a gf that you actually like each other! that's pretty rare in this world.
2007-12-07 08:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
French kissing is the best way to go, tounge it when things are getting hot
ps. While your kissing rub your arms all over her body and sqeeze her but (that really turns girls on)
2007-12-07 08:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋