my ex bf was very handsome, but I always had pbs with him, checking out other girls ( even when we are out together) in an obvious way, such as turning his head 180 degrees, i also ran into a bunch of emails fr a girl who he solicited for racy pics thru
hi 5, and denied it, he shut off his messenger when i was around, and his phone was always in his pocket and on silence when we were together. I gave him everything, he wasnt deprived of affection physically or psychologically. He just never proposed as he said he was going to. our relationship was long distce and difficult. he even had a match.com ad at one point. I loved him alot and wanted to move and be with him, but i wanted him to make official by proposing, he always told me why he is NOT proposing instead, and led me on for over 3 years. Is it me? and was it that he had so many secrets, even early in the relationship?
I eventually met a nice guy and moved in with him, but i miss my ex & wonder was it me? or was it him?
2007-12-07 08:37:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Decency and trustworthiness are determined by one's looks. There are ugly guys who behave the same way. Your boyfriend was a jerk because of his character not because he was handsome. Good luck. 2D
2007-12-07 08:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He seemed shady, but could of just been a commitment phobe. One thing yo have to realize is good looking people are just as trustworthy and honest as someone who is not. It' s just the person. I know what you are talking about.
I don't want to offend anyone, but as a good looking person, it's only natural that you get more attention. Well with that extra attention, obviously if you're in a relationship, you have to be stronger. Being faithful is something you have to do and people will always approach you. Whether you're a girl or guy, that's how it is.
He probably just didn't want to be in a relationship just yet and enjoyed talking to other girls... It also could be that he thought you would be jealous that he talked to other girls than you. It could of been many things. It sounds like it was him, but now the relationship is over and you have learned from it.
2007-12-07 16:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are being harsh when you classify all good looking people into this question. Also, there is more than one way to be "good looking". Are you talking about physical looks only? A lot of guys and girls who are told all their lives that they are hot, good looking, to die for, etc., tend to think that they can get and have any one and every thing they want. They think it is owed to them. There are also good looking people who are the sweetest, kindest people you will ever meet. They are very humble. Then there are the not so good looking people who have inner beauty and they shine in it. to me, these are the most attractive people in the world. Like you, I have met some very physically attractive people who are ugly because of their attitude. So, don't give up, and maybe you need to start not looking so much for physical attractiveness, but look at the person in whole. Hope this helps!
2007-12-07 16:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by timwoo2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, woman, he's playin u. The ex bf that is.
Umm, well he is good looking so of course he is used to the compliments. AND of course he likes the attention, and knowledge of being wanted. So if he will do whatever it takes to be THE MAN...totally in control.
It wasn't you. The girl sent pics, and that was a big sign!
PEACE BE WITH YOU....STAY WITH A NICE GUY!
2007-12-07 16:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by AnotherOneBitestheDust... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like this always make ti seem like the woman is always at fault. He led you on, instead of telling you how he felt. Had personal ads posted on the Internet, talked to girls, etc. etc.
It was him. Bottom line. Dont feel bad about getting rid of a loser.
2007-12-07 16:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by MayMay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT WAS NOT YOU! and i know from experience that good looking men are often the ones with lowest self-esteem, even though we find them super attractive, they themselves don't have high self-esteem. Seems to me like you already saw and experienced trouble signs with him, and looks as if he is either a needy person or a good looking guy who was not ready for a commitment! but you moved on so give your feelings and heart some time, and move forward without looking behind you to ur past! good luck!
2007-12-07 16:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by Insidious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems the kinda dude hu needs all the attention he can get, much more like a playa! Well dere are sum guys hu are like this and well i dunno wat u shud do but i guess its neva gonna work out and u gonna feel miserable everytime u see him do dis
And tell u sumfin else u mite not wanna leave him or let go, but trust me u will laff abt it in the future wen u find sum1 hu is wai betta =]
Mi ex girl was kinda like this, and was kinda bitchy i neva wanted to let go but i did and i dunno if i am sein her or not :/ coz she wont temme its over or not
but now i am wiv another chik hu is wai cuter and sweet even tho we live 2 hours awai :) i hav started to smile again :)
so its betta for u to forget abt him :)
good luck :)
p.s. in the end u gotta do wat u gotta do XD
2007-12-07 16:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about his good looks. You can do better 'cause he was really ugly inside and that is the important part.
2007-12-07 16:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it was you. You allowed him to string you along for three years when it was obvious he was not serious about you. Forgive me for being blunt, but how many clues do you need?
2007-12-07 16:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the easier some people can get what they want the more of it they want. never fall for a sociopath.
2007-12-07 16:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋