i have a hard time making up my mind. im never sure and its like i need someone to help me decide on things all the time... i feel so dumb... i dont know if i want this one or that one...
2007-12-07 08:16:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Oh, it's not because you're dumb, hey, i'm also indecisive and i'm the smartest person in my school! I think it's because you're very in to your future and you don't want to mess up so that you have to go through the consequences. Plus, you might feel that you may look stupid if you think one way and everyone else thinks the other way. Don't worry so much, just go with your instinct. No one can blame you for your opinion.
Remember this is ur elite speaking.
-Ciao
2007-12-07 08:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by queenofthecity 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
because you are too worried about the future and consequences. I'm the same way. Try to live in the moment with no regrets. You only live once. Make a choice, and go with it... you will have millions to make in your life, and the more indecisive you are, the less time you will have to enjoy the true blessings in front of you.
2007-12-07 08:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by dylans going2b a big brother! :) 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
No no no! This does not mean you're dumb!
You're just indecisive, and really: it's okay!
I'm indecisive too, and I'm an AP/Honors student.. really, it has nothing to do with your level of intellect.
2007-12-07 08:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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i have a hard time making up my mind. im never sure and its like i need someone to help me decide on things all the time... i feel so dumb... i dont know if i want this one or that one...
2015-08-11 21:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Oona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 03:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess, having gone through this myself, Is that you don't know yourself very well. Spend some time really thinking about what you enjoy, what you don't enjoy, what are strengths and weakness. Its okay to not like something other people like, and its okay to admit you have weaknesses we all do have them.
But really spend some time thinking about yourself. Start journaling that can really help. It also sounds like your self esteem might be a along, I recommend going to the library or to amazon and getting some self help books. One on self esteem and one on getting to know your strengths and weakness. Many of the later are in the career section though, but they will help you ask the right questions and help walk you through it. Two books that helped me get to know myself that I found on amazon are the self esteem workbook and of course what color is your parachute?
Once you get to know yourself you will have some definitive ideas about your likes and dislikes. You will have be more decisive.
2007-12-07 08:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by Uptown 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Really?
Looks like you made a decision to ask this question easily enough. You are more decisive than you think you are.
Stop asking for help. Decide and observe the outcome. If you decided poorly, learn from it. That makes making the next decision easier.
Making wise decisions is not about what you know. It's about becoming familiar and comfortable with the decision process.
2007-12-07 08:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by lunatic 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
There is nothing wrong with being indecisive.
2007-12-07 08:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by guardianangel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just need to ask yourself what you really want.
Others don't know or care - only you do.
For example: Do you want soup or salad with your meal? You're the one that's going to eat it so don't ask anyone else what you should get.
Heck, they're just gonna say the first thing
that comes to their mind!
They don't care what you decide.
Don't be afraid. And alwyas choose the salad! lol.
2007-12-07 08:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mary* 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well, dont know if how to tell you this except to just tell you. I have always heard the inability to make decisions is a sign of mental illness. Of course what do I know. Oh, wait Im not sure.
2007-12-07 08:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋