I have been having dreams lately of other guys.I have been dreaming about the same guy who I used to have a thing for when I was in high school! I dreamt that I left my bf for him. Then last night I had a dream about another guy and getting caught by my bf! I love him with all my heart and would never ever consider being with another man. What does this mean its starting to bother me and I don't want to go to sleep. I wake up and it feels so real its sickening. Help!!!
2007-12-07 07:55:04 · 5 answers · asked by Sadbrowneyes13 4 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
I love my man and want him in my life forever...we have been together for 6 years! No plans on leaving him and no plans on being with someone else! I am starting college this winter...with alot of support from my bf.
2007-12-07 08:16:18 · update #1
What are you thinking? We could all ask ourselves that question. Consider that the dreams just remind you of how much you DON'T want to be with another man. When you go to sleep (I know this will sound weird), tell yourself firmly that you are not going to dream about other guys. Tell yourself to STOP the dream if it begins. Being able to control your dreams is a step toward controlling your life, and is a good skill to develop. As you go to sleep, think wonderful things about your boyfriend.
2007-12-07 08:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by La Belle Dame Sans Merci 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it were only your old high school boyfriend, I would say that you were feeling the need to retreat into your childhood, probably due to stress. But, since you have also dreamed about someone else your past is not tied to, I would say that you know that you need to leave your boyfriend, and you are finding a way in your subconscious. Unfortunately, it appears that the way for you is to get another guy. Wrong!
You should explore other ways to change and expand so that you can make a future for yourself independent of a man. That will allow you to make good choices about who you want to be with.
Go back to school; get an interesting new job; train for a trade. You might want to see a career counsellor and come up with a new path for your life. If there's a college near you, they probably have one there. If not, call the information desk at your county library.
Now get out there and thrive!
2007-12-07 08:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you are scared that something (possibly at college?) might come between you and your bf. Your subconscious translated this fear into an external person coming between you. But, don't worry, it is up to your waking self to maintain a strong relationship with your bf, and I am sure you will!!
2007-12-07 08:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by rhiannon2797 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
distractions are twigs in a path of love
just cut and move them aside
like forgiving and forgeting
those other guys
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2007-12-07 09:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a horrible person.
2007-12-07 08:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by Capitalist 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋