1)...and if you did, why?
2) How did you end up feeling when it ended?
3) Did you ever tell the spouse?
2007-12-07 07:53:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I have never cheated with a married person and I never would.
There are plenty of single available people in the world these days to choose from. The karma that playing with that kind of fire will get you can only be bad.
2. Here are my predictions for how you would feel when it ended. You could end up having real feelings for this person, and they could end up staying with their spouse or worse, leaving their spouse, shacking up with you and then cheating on you later.
3. No you should not tell the spouse. They should be the ones to tell the spouse, if at all.
Go find someone who is available. Nothing good can come from having sex with married people, and you might even get beat up or shot. There are some crazy husbands out there. Domestic violence/murder of this sort is the most common cause of crime in the usa. Don't even mess with OPP.
2007-12-07 08:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jasco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. I did once (would never again). I knew a roommate of his and knew he and his wife were only together for the sake of the children. The lived like roommates only. The barely got along.
2. I was sad to see it end, more because I lost the friendship. We tried to maintain the friendship over the years, but we eventually went our own separate ways.
3. No need to tell his wife. She found out. That's why it ended. I must say, a couple years later I heard from him again. He and his wife and renewed their relationship and were happy again like they were when they first got married. I was so happy to hear that from him because his happiness was all I ever wanted.
2007-12-07 16:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- no but i know two people who did
2- they never had the person around when they needed them, weekends and holidays were hell, and they lived in constant fear. when it ended they felt used and stupid and completely evil and super sad. plus they had to do a LOT of work to get over the married person, as in two years work.
3- they didn't tell the spouse, because that is not their place
I got cheated on in my marriage, i am now divorced. she didn't tell me he told me, but i know it would have hurt more if she had been the one to tell me
2007-12-07 16:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by Losing Is Not An Option 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with someone that was going through a divorce, and it wasnt finalized, i guess that kinda counts.... I actually didnt know that he divorce wasnt finalized until after i ended it. I felt really betrayed when it ended, but thats what i get for not asking i guess.... I never told the spouse, but she hated me and i would see her when she would drop off their kids. I never knew until we were over why she disliked me so much, i mean hell i didnt know, but it made me feel bad afterwards....
2007-12-07 16:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never disrespect someone's marriage that way. no matter how bad their marriage was.
2007-12-07 15:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by Matilda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋