So I like my really good guy friend n he knows i like him but he ats like he likes me but i dunno if he does n my other guy friend whos also his friend asked me the other day if i still liked him but i just went like "well yeah, but ya know as a friend" but it was a lie cuz i like, still like him. I dun wanna bring it up w/him though cuz i luv bein his friend so i dun wanna mess that up but i still kinda wanna be more, sorta soooo plz, what should i do?
2007-12-07 07:36:36 · 17 answers · asked by Lucky-Lucy :) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep being his friend as normal but try adding some hints of flirting in, once in a while. See how he responds to the flirting. You will know if he likes you back trust me.
2007-12-07 07:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Heartfelt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liking a guy friend is always a very tricky position. On one hand, you could go for the gold and ask him out, risking the friendship you have with him, or you could stay in today and forever wonder what it would have been like. I say that you should take the chance and ask him out. Even if it doesn't work out well, you've got tons of time to build up the friendship again. But if you don't ask him soon, remember that both of you won't be single forever.
Good luck! =]
2007-12-07 15:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mujareh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man is about one trillion times more likely to take a friendship further with a girl-friend then a woman is with her male counterpart. So if you broached the subject with him, it would happen. But you both need to know the answer, or you will have this invisible, unspoken barrier between you both forever. Ask yourself this: If he found a girl and married her, would you be OK with that? If you answered yes, then say nothing, if the answer's no, then tell him and hang the consequences. It is far far better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
2007-12-07 15:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is complicated. Like is easily explained in a few words: lust, infatuation, adoration.
You need to decide what you feel for him first. If it is a strong feeling that requires action then I would simply ask him on an outing. While you're out, flirt with him casually - but don't go overboard. And after the date make sure you do little things to show you care.. not creepy little things.. but nice little things. After a while things should come naturally.
2007-12-07 15:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Queen_Lollipop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. Your allready his friend and if your friendship is that strong then he wont just ditch and never be your friend again if its a no. Just talk to him about it. If You dont get the ancwer you want then ask if you can still be friends. Then he would know you were interested
and will think about you more and who know swhat can happen. Your never going to know if you dont ask. No Day But Today!
2007-12-07 15:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by forgood456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everything happens for a reason if you guys are ment to be it will happen. Dont be worried about your freindship you prolly wont even still talk to him in 10 years, so go on and ask him out, you dont want to wonder what if, ya know?
2007-12-07 15:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by burkeshirestables 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remain friends with all of them. There should be no hurry to get into a relationship now.
2007-12-07 15:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by Andre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you, should ask yourself is it worth it to lose your friendship with him, but also have the chance to spend the rest of your lives together. Or would you rather just have him in your life.no one on this board can anwser that for you only you can.
2007-12-07 15:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by troy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know if you don't go for it.
What is the worst thing that will happen?
He could say no...... but you would still have him as a friend.
2007-12-07 15:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow! the exception to the rule?????? just tell him how you feel and if he's interested take it SLOW. be gentle, honest and keep the communication going. if your really friends you still will be if the relationship doesn't work. this is ONE lucky guy. peace!
2007-12-07 15:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋