Yahoo mix up of my love?????
i asked a question if i should tell the guy i like , that i like him.. and u all said i should so i did and he told me that he has a gf!i cried for an hour and he told me that he does not like me!
it hurts soooo much i am gone deprest!
i don't know what to do! plz help me! I have never felt this HURT in my intire life.....what do u d
best answer gets 10 points!
thanks guys...
oh ya and tell me if u r a boy or grl so i know what side u are coming from....
:( thanyou
2007-12-07 07:35:38 · 24 answers · asked by hjlkjh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why are you listening to people here telling you what you should do.
Can you not make your own choices?
not trying to be rude but people here dont know the situation and cannot give you adive that will actually work.. go with your gut. He is not the last boy on earth- move on and find someone else. dont cry over something that is not meant to be hun.
I am female
2007-12-07 07:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, i am a guy,
Second, I know it is painful when someone tells you something that you dont want to hear. You probably had your hopes up and felt good about yourself and what you were going to do... then you get crushed when the response is not what you wanted.
that happens, so rather than let this be a lesson to never go tell someone how you feel take it on the chin and mark it as an experience... Look at your watch... if you didnt do what you did you would still be wondering... the result would be the same... you have to maintain that quality of facing you fears and accomplishing your goals... he didnt like you... his loss... he had a GF which is probably why he said he didnt like you... you dont want another girl going around saying that you said you like a girl other than your girlfriend... maybe he is a devoted boyfriend and was just protecting himself....
either way...be proud that you did it!!!! you dont have to wonder... the next time is easier...who cares what the answer is besides your feelings getting hurt you had the guts to take charge of your destiny...now you have to move on and look for the next guy your going to have to say the same thing to...i hope its a different answer but if you never try to fly how the heck are you going to ever get off the ground!!!!!!
dont give up... dont feel to bad... you are doing great!
you are a better person because of this.
take care you!
2007-12-07 07:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by my_huckelberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there really isn't anything you can do...I have been in the same situation before (I'm not going to say that I fully understand what you feel because everyone is different) and the only thing you can do is leave it behind. That may seem hard but life is too short to be depressed. I recall a time when I was dating a girl who had a boyfriend and when I found out it was really hard to get over it. It took me around 3 months to get over it. The funny thing (I know this may not seem funny now) is that there's still someone out there for you..well, best of luck...
2007-12-07 07:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kamal A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh its hurts to be rejected. But now at least you know.
You wont be sitting around dreaming of this guy and wondering. You can now move on and be open to another guy coming into your life.
It was good for you to tell him no matter the outcome. It was a healthy choice.
I am a girl and have been there done that in my time and I eventually felt better for it. If you see him again just say hi and before you know it he will just be another regular guy.
2007-12-07 07:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by Faithful_tab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl and my advice is to forget about him right now it is only you buy lots of Ice cream and never ask about dating questions on here ever again and then find a new crush but make sure it is real then go out with him then the guy you liked will see that and will wish he had dumped his gf and dated you !
2007-12-07 07:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its a yahoo mixup of your love. Well look at it from a different perspective; isn't it better than to spend another day beating yourself up worrying about whether he likes you or not and if you should approach him or not? At least now you know where you stand and don't need to waste another day thinking of him. I'd rather know that he doesn't like me than to spend weeks, months, years thinking that he does and waste my time having fantasies of him. Yes having your hopes and feelings hurt is painful but it better than living a pipe dream for years. Now you pick up and dust off yourself, raise your head up and go find someone else who will return your love. Too many fishes in the sea to cry over this one.
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2007-12-07 07:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Šωèé†íé♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't you rather know the truth so that you can put an end to this? I don't think you're so much hurt as you are embarrassed. And DON'T be! He was extremely flattered I know. Chalk this up to experience, put a period in it, & go find you a guy that will like you! Trust me he's out there. And if you sit & pine away wasting tears on this guy, that other one will pass you by... girl
2007-12-07 07:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by T. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I suppose you got excited when so many people told you to go for it, should have warned you that you could get rejected!?!?
You know, it will pass....there are other boys out there & I promise, one day you'll be with someone great & you'll wonder why you shed a tear over that guy in the first place!!!
It was't meant to be, but there is more exciting things in your life to come....I promise♥......~a girl~
2007-12-07 07:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by ✩☆✩HAPPINESS✩☆✩ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
atleast you told him how you felt. i know you feel bad. but atleast you could move forward now with no regrets because you did everything you could.
you had guts and that's never a bad thing.
sure it hurts but hang in there it wil pass, just give it time.
go out and try to have fun, get on with your everyday life.
another one will come and it'll be better because he will return your feelings and wont have a girlfriend.
i'm a girl (21)
2007-12-07 07:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it. he's a boy you're a girl. and it happens all the time. i know you really like him, and he may have a girlfriend but what are the chances of them staying together forever? i guess you have 2 choices, wait for him, or move on and find someone who is worth your time. good luck
i'm a femaleee
2007-12-07 07:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋