Would you leave them, kick both their a**es, get him/her back by sleeping with their friend or join them?
Honestly what would you do?
I am curious to know what women say compare to men...
2007-12-07 07:35:09 · 16 answers · asked by Jr. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lynn; I was expecting a men to say that. lol...
2007-12-07 07:46:09 · update #1
Men; What if it was a female friend of both of you?
2007-12-07 07:51:47 · update #2
A cheating women is not worth fighting over in my opinioin...i'd just never speak to either one of them again...of course if it was my friend ...kicking his *** would cross my mind for sure...but i doubt i would do it b/c its just not worth it.
2007-12-07 07:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would do any of your options. I think I would first question myself to see what caused my partner to stray. Then I would speak to my partner about it to see why it happened. Once it's done, it's done. No ranting and raving or kicking someone's a** is going to undo that fact. And the 'tit for tat' thing never was a good idea in my book either. I do believe it would take some real maturity to move on from something like this, but I am positive people have done it, and no one's a** was kicked.
2007-12-07 15:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by brokenangel492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might think im weird with this answer but here goes....
I'll tell my gf that its over and i wont waste my time with someone i dont trust. I'll call my friend (she cheated with) and tell him in front of her the following: Hey man, id like to thank you for making me realize what kind of girl she is, You really are a good friend looking out for me. Now i can move on with my life without any doubts and get on with my life. Oh i still owe you money from last week, il come over and pay you. later dude. Then il look at the girl and say have a nice day, it was funn, too bad it ended this way...
It doesnt matter what her reaction is lol my friend is my friend, i probably know he's been that way but its hard to find a friend, it doesnt mean you have to trust them with everything.
2007-12-07 15:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by R-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
End the relationship with both people forever. YOur better than that. No need to get back. Let them wallow in their own sick shallow self centered world.
2007-12-07 15:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I was with him? Both would be kicked to the curb. Before I was with him? It wouldn't bother me as long as both were honest about it.
2007-12-07 15:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick both of their asses, then never talk to them again. I can hold a grudge for a REALLY long time.
2007-12-07 15:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was a secret affair, I would write them both off, outta my life. Not a great husband or friend in my books.
2007-12-07 15:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick both of there asses... and never talk to both of them agian... There is no explantion good enough for that... what did she trip, fell and landed on his d*ck... I dont think soo....
2007-12-07 15:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same.
I would never speak to either of them again.
But if you were asking ME personally, I get reeeaalllyy mad, so there's a good chance I would do something to get revenge. =)
2007-12-07 15:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by chaos211 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur friend was really ur friend he wouldnt have done that, if he doesnt realize what he did was wrong, kick his ***, as for the girl she knew better, shes gone
2007-12-07 15:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋