I hear that the age of majoroty in Japan is 18 im guessing he will be staying in some kind of base, he never seems to know what is next he is 18 years old.. I know that he is a man now but I still worry about him all the way there I am so scared, and is for two years, have anyone being stationed in Japan? what is going to be like for him he doesn't even speak the language?
2007-12-06 22:47:44 · 17 answers · asked by boricua_2290 5 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
some out in the answers is accusing me of embarrasing my son because i am worried, well you know this person obviously doesn't have any kids, I mean you spent 18 years worrying about your kids and making sure nothing harm your child and all of the sudden, he enlist in the Marine's and off to Japan and is scary OK I know my son is with the best of the best and of that I am proud that he choses to serve his beloved country, but still in my heart all I see is that little boy who use to play with little soldiers as a baby and I am scared of what is around him in a country I have never being or neither is he is so far like going to another world, I appreciate the people who are trying to comfort me they have children they understand, and I thank all for your answers.. God bless you all.
2007-12-06 23:15:31 · update #1
Speaking as a fellow Marine, I can tell you this, please do not worry, he will see a part of the world many can only dream of seeing.
He will have his back covered by this fellow Marines and the ones who have been there longer will take him under their wings.
HOWEVER< he may have to buy the drinks at first, so his only real problem is can he make it between pay days.
Cheer up, he is a Marine and your son, Marines may be tough, but Moms mean a lot to us.
2007-12-07 01:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sgt Big Red 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since we're not at war with Japan and he'll be stationed on a United States Marine base there, he will be in no more danger than if he was stationed in your back yard!
From what I've been told, it's a beautiful place to be stationed, very well stocked with "American" goods, and that the people are used to having young Marines out and about, so most speak English.
As for him not knowing what's next? I felt the same way my son's first year in the Corps. It does get better. For a lot of really good information on all this, check out http://www.marineparents.com It's the best online resource for anything and everything Marine Corps... and the message boards will be great for you. You'll be able to connect with the families of other Marines stationed with your son in Japan.
2007-12-07 08:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by Amy S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is stationed at Kadena (Okinawa)
She lives in a beautiful apartment in town that overlooks the beach. She has wonderful neighbors (locals) that look after her cat and apartment when she is flying. Japan is one of the few places left in this old world where people place a very high value on their moral values and social standards. There are places to get into trouble just like anywhere, but not as many as there are in some other countries.
The only thing he will have to learn is how to drive on the wrong side of the road.
2007-12-07 09:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by tom l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Japan is great......if one of my kids enlists in the military when they get older and they tell me they are going there I wont worry (and I was there for 3 years so Im a pretty good judge) Yes there is trouble for him to get into.......depending on where hes at prostitution is HUGE in some parts, the drinking age in Japan is 20.....but there are places he can get into at 18 trust me.......but there is trouble he can get into in the US too. Just trust that you did your job as a parent and taught him right from wrong. As for the language everyone on base even the locals will speak English at least well enough to communicate.....and most places he goes off base will speak at least some English also. He will grow up alot while hes there though most likely. You may not even recognize him when he comes back.....as long as he stays out of trouble Japan is a very safe place for him to be.
2007-12-07 07:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by CRmac 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I have friend in Japan aboard the USS Kitty Hawk. From what I hear and he tells me....There's a party everyday. If he hangs around the right crowd he'll do fine. Any mother would worry about their child..especially those that are half way around the world. What kind of mother would u be if u didnt worry?
2007-12-07 09:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by KensGurl313 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend stayed in Okinawa for a year. He liked it alright. He was a Marine and stayed on the Marine base for the most part. He said he went bowling on base and to the movies a lot. Your son will be fine so long as Godzilla doesn't attack.
2007-12-07 08:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I was in Misawa. Far northern part of Island. They speak English on base, and the majority of Japanese speak English. They begin learning in 1st grade. He couldn't be anywhere safer than in Japan. No need to worry about that.
2007-12-07 06:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing to know about Japan is, there are no carbombs. I've very happy for you both. Better in Japan than anywhere in the midlle east.
2007-12-07 08:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by Charlie S 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I was never stationed there but was stationed on Crete in the late 70's/early 80's with some individuals who were and heard nothing but positives. The Japanese hosts are very warm and cordial folks. His experience should be most enlightening and rewarding...
2007-12-07 07:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to watch out for Ninja attacks. When I was in Yokosuka it was a major problem.
Just kidding, he;ll have a great time I am sure so long as he acts like a grownup. The japanese do not like people acting the fool.
2007-12-07 08:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋