Basically, I made out with my brother's best friend, twice. I started getting attached & he ended it, claiming that he couldn't hook up with his best friend's sister...but I know that's not the case, otherwise the first 2 makeout sessions wouldn't have happened. Mind you, one of the times my bro was in the next room & not only that, gave me consent that it would be okay if we dated.
What happened was this guy fell for my friend...but feelings weren't mutual for her, she liked his friend! (how's that for drama!)
In short, I haven't talked to him in over a month. I got tired of always being the one to call him/ text him. I still would like to be his friend, but I can't help but feel like I screwed up along the way by trying to push it further.
Is this "friendship" salvageable, or did I screw it up indefinetley?
I obviousley care about him, & would like to remain friends, but if he cared, wouldn't he have made the effort?
2007-12-06 20:37:35 · 6 answers · asked by country_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't waste your time. If he wanted to talk to you, he would have contacted you. He is not interested in being your friend.
2007-12-06 20:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
notwithstanding you do do no longer call him, textual content cloth him or the rest. notwithstanding how lots it kills you, you ought to look ahead to him to touch you or you will remorseful approximately it. locate some thing else to maintain your strategies occupied (extra straightforward pronounced than carried out i comprehend), yet you're able to do it. merely loosen up and wait. you have no longer wrecked a friendship till one by no ability existed. No genuine buddy might ever enable some thing like this to destroy the friendship. His concerns are valid and you ought to offer him time to contemplate all this on his very own. perhaps which would be an afternoon or 2, a month or 2, or a three hundred and sixty 5 days or 2, in uncomplicated terms time will tell. yet I assure that in case you touch him in the past he contacts you which you will remorseful approximately it. you will no longer get the respond you're hoping for and in case you probably did by ability of a few unusual miracle it would not be truthful. If he have been waiting to speak to you approximately it, he might have contacted you in the past you contacted him. Reign in those thoughts and take a seat tight for a on a similar time as. If it helps, think of approximately something undesirable approximately him you do unlike and harp on it on your strategies to assist combat the sentiments. you're a girl, all of us comprehend meaning you're able to figuring out on an exceptionally tiny habit and blowing it way out of proportion!!! Oh cool down and chortle a dash it improve into in uncomplicated terms a humorous tale. stable success to you!
2016-10-01 01:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may have just learned a basic life lesson. Once you take a great friendship "over the line", you will have damaged the friendship. Things will never be the same. He obviously doesn't want to talk with you so stop texting him.
2007-12-06 20:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother didn't mind having his best friend date his best sister--it would have made the tie stronger all around.
When the guy fell for your friend, it's different, though. He weakened the tie you had with your friend, so he took two things away from you.
There are other guys out there.
2007-12-06 20:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't ever waste your time,love,care, smile, understanding or what ever that comes from within you on people who won't think twice b4 hurting you, there is a whole lot of people who will value you out there.
2007-12-06 20:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you don't care about it that much - don't call or text him.
Just be friendly and pleasant and kind when he is around. Greet him sweetly and walk off.
Don't be too anxious to kiss people - this is what happens.
Joy to you...
2007-12-06 20:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋