I have been depressed for the last while, (guys not loving me for who I am, being lonely, acting career etc). I went to the pool yesterday, just trying to relieve stress, relaxing in the hot tub. After a while, a kid who looked about 14, maybe 15 came in and recognized me, knew who I was. He said he could tell I was looking quite depressed. We were talking for about 15 minutes. I thought he was an extremely cool kid, he said his brother who is 25, is coming out of the gym in 10 minutes, and said I should go see a movie with them.
I saw a man walk walking towards us, a muscular guy, good looking, reminded me of some kind of roofer, painter or something. It was his older brother. He introduced us to eachother, he was an extremely nice guy. We ended up going to see a movie and eat dinner, the 3 of us. John (25) Jacob (14). John told me jacob comes to his house on weekends on some weekdays, overnight. I look foward to seeing both of them again.
Is this too good to be true?Have I..
2007-12-06 18:48:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Actually found love?
know its so fast, but it just said thought to my self, wow I actually feel like I belong, and enjoy being with them. Everything that happened, (what type of discussions we were talking about at dinner, how Jacob debates over everything, how John looks me in the eyes in a certain way, jacob falling asleep on me during the movie)
I never felt this way in any other relationships
2007-12-06 18:49:27 · update #1
Why do you post the same question in many unrelated forums?
Obviously, you are seeking the answer you want to hear, so here's my advice:
This 25 year-old sounds like the one for you. I think you should feel free to engage into a deep intimate relationship with him - this weekend. Just invite him to put lotion on you at the pool, then take him in your house for a drink (or two) and let nature (and him) take it's course. Don't wait.
Don't waste time thinking about responsiblites and the burdens in life. Enjoy the moment. Feel the pleasure of his energy.
This should alleviate your depression for a couple of weeks.
2007-12-07 05:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by geeksball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you publish the identical query in lots of unrelated boards? Obviously, you're searching for the reply you wish to listen to, so here is my recommendation: This 25 yr-ancient appears like the only for you. I feel you must think loose to have interaction right into a deep intimate dating with him - this weekend. Just invite him to position lotion on you on the pool, then take him for your residence for a drink (or 2) and permit nature (and him) take it is direction. Don't wait. Don't waste time considering responsiblites and the burdens in existence. Enjoy the second. Feel the satisfaction of his vigor. This must alleviate your despair for a few weeks.
2016-09-05 10:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by murarilal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time Kim. Be freinds. You dont really know this guy but given time I hope it developes into a loving relationship. Good luck
2007-12-07 11:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by cats mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people are typically nice, for some reason our culture tries to scare everyone from associating, dating, having fun with everyone else through scare tactics (I think its good for selling porn and the like for profit, scaring people that is). In any case, life is meant to be enjoyed, when you put too much thought into things you shoot yourself in your own foot, if you like someone spend your time with them and you should be happy.
2007-12-06 19:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to be mean, but it sounds like that guy sent his little brother over to you to talk him up. It could turn into a relationship but guys like that usually just do that to get into your pants.
2007-12-06 18:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck to you. Best wishes and blessings.
2007-12-06 18:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by Swamy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's always nice to make new friends, that's for sure.
you don't know these guys very well, so please watch your back... and look out for yourself... ok?
take care.
2007-12-06 18:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋